Mabel, I can relate to ur mil issue. Thru my 5 yrs of marriage, my mil never really treat me like her daughter, in fact, always give me the feeling that I snatched her son. Just before my marriage, she got her fren to phone me to tell me off when I insist on getting own flat instead of staying with her. Then on wedding dinner night, she kicked my gown whenever it got in her way. Faint*.
After marriage, she commented that our infertility problem lies with me, and said poor womb leads to unhealthy children with hole in the heart etc. I told my hubby that if she has nothung better to say, she should juz keep quiet. Then, during my 2ww, she said I eat too well for lunch, should just eat beans with porridge. Then now after my confirmed pregnancy, she comes up with lots of excuses why she cant help to take care of my bb in future.
We marry their sons, so no matter how maddening they made us feel, we just have to live with them.
After marriage, she commented that our infertility problem lies with me, and said poor womb leads to unhealthy children with hole in the heart etc. I told my hubby that if she has nothung better to say, she should juz keep quiet. Then, during my 2ww, she said I eat too well for lunch, should just eat beans with porridge. Then now after my confirmed pregnancy, she comes up with lots of excuses why she cant help to take care of my bb in future.
We marry their sons, so no matter how maddening they made us feel, we just have to live with them.