IVF/ICSI Support Group

Holidaygal
Before we embark on IVF, or even d last soiui, we contemplated seeking help fr dr Ng Soon Chye.
however my blood condition has been my concern n private might charge so much higher. Having done at KK, well, I don't find it any least cheaper.
Intend to give FET a try.. Be it medicated or natural... If fail, will consider going to prof Ng.
Juz some Thots at d moment...

Holidaygal
MAy I know which Gynae u switched to?
 


ceraine, i totally understand how you feel! I have only 3 frozen embbies (2grade3 & 1grade4) left. I also wanted to embark fresh cycle but Dr Loh advice to use frozen first as the next fresh quality may not be as gd.

You didn't mention what is your bhcg lvl? Do you need to re-take bt? Did the nurse schedule appt for you to see Dr Loh?
 
Hi ceraine,

Take care and dun give up. Try FET before embarking on another fresh cycle. Some ladies at care are already on growth hormone injectibles, especially for poor responders with low AMH and high FSH readings.. The research and readings so far has been encouraging..u may want to explore that option with the RE in future. Perservere on!
 
Hi ladies with kkh,

I remembered in a posting by one of the sisters here that kk has a cutoff on the bhcg levels and that unless that level is met, the ladies may need to do another round of testing.. Tried to search for that posting but to no avail.. I believe it was posted by sesame? Would someone be so kind as to advise? My bhcg level is at 190.2 at day 14 post ET...high/low/borderline?
 
Mina
Issit???
I was disappointed with balance Qtyy of embryo as Tat will limit me to Tries of FET.
I'll only b seeing him 15th Jan as I requested for sat appt

No repeat beta needed as level is quite low,1.2 nia
Expecting AF these two days...jiving d twitches still..
Hiaz... I never like Dec as there are too many hurtful memories.. Now added one more...
 
Val, the minimum bchg level to reach at kkh is 250. Yr level is ok, u might need to redo in 2 days time? Some ladies says its 200, but the nurses told me last mth is 250...
 
Val, congrats on your bfp!
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Thanks sesame!

My RE is out of town and he has requested me to get the additional supports from the clinic but no mention re the retaking of bloods hence the query as I recalled I have seen this 250 reading in one of the posts
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will send him an email to confirm again if there's a need to retake 2 days time.

Thanks again sesame and congrats on your twins!!
 
Val, are u with kkh? I understand from most ladies here that the passing mark is 200 in most clinics. Perhaps u can check with the nurses. Meanwhile, take good care!
 
Nope.. My re is from private practice, Dr Yeong from tow yung clinic and I went to mount elizabeth for the ER and ET as well as blood test. They told me that based on my readings, it's considered that I m clinically pregnant and it would be dependent on my RE instructions if a retest is necessary..
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Ceraine, I dont have the best words to lighten your mood now but dun give up on your 2 emmbbies. i'm one tough nut to crack, to reach ET stage is a miracle, let alone bfp. I am with Care and i have no regrets spending huge amt. The cost continues to escalate....
 
Holidaygal, lol dats wat I worry. Dunno y keep feeling hungry. Been emotional too but dr tan said it's not due to d GH hmmm
 
Ceraine, Huh like d routine? Actually after fail d cycle n while waiting for tests n result, I feel very empty too... Like something's missing :p
 
Ceraine,
You have a PM. =)


Dear sisters,

I'm very happy (but still with an apprehensive heart) to announce that I have BFP. =)

My bhcg level today is 1150. KKH's minimum is 250.

I'd like to share my babydust especially with Ceraine and ALL you other sisters here who have been on this journey with me.

Thank you all for your well-wishes, care, concern and advice over this period of time! I shall still be hanging out here to be a listening ear. =)

*big hugs* to ceraine and miracle, my cycle buddies.
 
Congrat to val and soul..;)
Wah soul, ur hcg result is soooo high.. How many u put in ?? Sure multiple le.. Double happiness.. Ur bb sure very stable with u since hcg so high..;) btw, wht happen to miracle?? U know her result? Bfp izzit? Is this ur fresh cycle? Can advise wht u do before ivf and during 2ww?? Share with us more tips pls... Thk u sooo much for ur bb dust..keep tight tight and sleep with it tonight..;)
 
Soul, Congrats!!! You got such high hcg lvl.. how many days after et is today? Catching your babydusts and hug it tight :p

Does anyone know whether must complete Dr Zou af meds? My period end liao but still have 2 days dosage left cos didn't take it. I was down with flu & cough.
 
Hi Soul, Congrats
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Hope4baby, i don't think will do hpt again, will wait for bt on 10th. Today done my last jab, feeling the same, still exp mild cramp on off. Maybe due to the med. Actually after the neg hpt, i felt more relax and leave it to fate liao. If this round not successful, i already mentally prepare liao. If successful, it will be a bonus to me.
 
Hi all,

Today is 15 days past 3 day transfer for me. I dunno why the hcg level is so high. But like I said earlier, until I see my ultra-sound scan in 2 weeks' time, anything can happen. I don't know if it's normal or ectopic pregnancy. Can only continue to pray and stay as positive (or boh-chup) as I possibly can. =)

This is my 1st IVF and I honestly didn't place too much hopes into it. Married for 5 years and been TTC-ing for abt 3. IVF was really my last resort. Dr Loh advised me a few times to try to conceive naturally but it just didn't happen for us.

I have PCOS and a blocked fallopian tube. My menses are super irregular and extremely painful and heavy. I went to Eu Yan Sang at Paragon and also Thong Chai medical but both didn't work out.

I harvested 22 eggs but only 4 fertilised. We were sad and disappointed and later, when we spoke to the embryologist, found out that it was both our 'fault'. His morphology was low (many abnormally formed sperms) and my eggs were not perfect - some were fractured, some not in good shape, some just didn't grow after fertilisation.

I inserted 2 eggs - 1 grade 4 (7cells) and 1 grade 3 (9cells) and froze 2 grade 3 embryos.

I took all the advice from the sisters in this forum - to avoid all 'liang' vege, fruits, drinks. I stopped drinking cold water. I don't sleep with air-con and I wear slippers in the house. I went for accu with Dr Zou a few mths ago and also took her medicine but stopped after my ankle surgery.

During 2WW - I slept the 1st 2 days away after ET. I didn't walk except to go toilet and shower. I ordered tingkat lunch. I sat around most of the time watching tv or sit in front of computer (online shopping LOL).

I ate:
1. Ensure (alt days)
2. Cordyceps powder in pill form (once a day)
3. Folic acid
4. Durians (ALOT of it during Day 7-10) And I think I came down with fever because of overdose of durians!
5. Brazil nuts (4-5 a day)
6. Drank 2 litres of water everyday (I only drink boiled water after ET. I used to drink water direct from tap)
7. Brands Essence of chicken or Essence of chicken with cordecyps everyday.
8. Longan red date tea whenever I feel like it.

I did develop a fever on day 11 but I avoided medicines. Cold compressed. And I still have diarrhoea till today. Back hurts like hell when I stand too long and I still cannot stand fully upright. My tummy feels very tight and stretched out and I dunno why. And I cannot sleep properly cos I feel like a water bomb is attached to my stomach. haha...

Sorry for the long post, but I hope this will benefit someone. =)
 
Thanks Pandawife. Was juz telling my Dh 3rd cycle start shd be correct. I calculated shd b few days or even 1-2 days b4 cny. Dr tan told us after jab must continue w d cycle else all wl b wasted.

Congrates Soul
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Congrats to Val & Soul!

Soul,
It's highly possible u have twins! My beta was 440 12days past ET. So if u calculate the doubling it'll be in the 1000 range like yours.
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Sunstillshine, you on med or natural get? Do you do TCM? Any supplement? Can take royal jelly? Any benefit?

Ceraine, you take care.
 
Ceraine, know it is hard but time will heal u n ur dh slowly... Glad tat u will keep on trying... U r one brave gal! And shld be proud of urself... U will get to hold ur precious in ur arms one day...
 
Hi ladies,

I have learnt alot from the ladies in this forum who have shared and I would like to also share my experience, esp for ladies with poor ovarian reserve ie poor responders.

Like soul, I have been married for 5 years and started TCC ing 3 years ago.. I went for a laproscopy as well as D&C 2 to 3 years back ti clean up some cysts, polyps as well as my thick uterus walls. However, with the 'clean up' I still did not manage to conceive naturally.

I decided to switch gynae and embarked on IUI.. Failed. My DH SA was not exactly good. Took me nearly a year to try SO IUI in july this year coz I m terrified of needles.. That failed too. All this while while trying the IUI, I was with a general gynae and she then recommended that I see a RE instead to deal with infertility issues.

I did the AMH test and I believe that there r ladies in the forum who have gone for this as well. My RE called me immediately after the results r known to point out to me what that means..although physical age wise, I just hit 32, my AMH is at 2.3 which means that I have low ovarian reserve, my eggs are aging. I found it hard to accept. This was the reason why despite jabbing 150 u of puregon plus being on clomid in the previous cycle of so iui only resulted in 1 follicle being recruited.

We then explored ivf as a last resort and per doc's advice, dun waste too much time in embarking on this journey. However, I asked him to delay by one cycle coz I wanted to seek tcm ( I never believed in tcm but I had to try after reading this forun even tho it's only for a month). I went on to do accu and took Chinese medication from eu ren sang. I was seeing dr Qi at tiong bahru plaza.

Given the low amh results, it came without surprise when the FSH results was also very high... I was at 17. Doc prep me and my Hubby that we'll not get the qty but now to focus on quality. He decided to put me on at least 1 month of growth hormones before starting on ivf. There has been research and papers that GH has a positive impact. I was injecting GH all the way till ER, injecting a higher dose during stim phase.

I was on the short protocol (no point supressing anymore when I m already so suppressed with my high fsh) and was on 400 units of puregon and 150 units of menopur for approx 14 days. That's about the max max dosage of stim drugs. Despite the high dosage, I only yielded 3 follicles.

Out of the 3 follicles, 3 eggs were harvested. Only 1 was of good quality. The other 2 were with fragmented. Out of the 3, 2 of them went on to fertilize (icsi). My embrologist did not tell me the gradings and it really din matter to me then coz I din have a choice to choose. I only had 2. One was 6 cell ( the good egg) and the other was 8 cell (the not so good one). I did a day 3 transfer.

During the 2 weeks, I took pink m's advice seriously and made sure I was on bed rest most of the time. She advised that she took Chinese meds too dr Zou during the 2ww. I requested the same from my Chinese doc. I did what u ladies have advised, taking the dates wolfberry tea, durians, brazil nuts, conceive well, chicken essence.I plonked myself in bed and took Day's advise to lay down in bed especially in the first week. One thing I may have done differently coz my bbt is very low is that I started to take red ginseng powder to bring up the temp levels. I started taking red ginseng rather late in the game tho. Like 2 weeks prior to ET all the way till now. Not too sure if that helped tho.

My bhcg is not high at 190.2. Like the ladies here .. I guess nothing is firmed until the see the scans and hear the heartbeats. I continue to pray for little miracles, one baby step at a time.. And count my blessings when each hurdle is crossed.

Tho I do not post much here, I must tell u that u ladies have supported me in this journey.

All the best everyone! Persevere and continue to stay strong and positive!
 
AllyFan, I was trying to pm you but you have disable it. I read your concern over FSH. I have a friend who is having very high FSH and her proble was solved after taking chinese medicine. She delivered a boy 2 years ago. She has consulted a lot of western gynae and they tell her to give up and go for adoption. However she conceived and delivered a boy after taking the chinese medicine.

Could you pm me so that I can tell you more and also pass you the detail of this chinese doctor. The thread here is moving too fast. It is better to pm.
 
Morning Ladies,

Back to work and was SO tired and would spent my evenings sleeping away. Hope I can tahan my terrible sleeping patterns through the 1st trimester.

Ceraine,
Hugs!!! Talk to Dr Loh before deciding the next steps ahead. Hope you can press on and continue to have faith.

Soul & Val,
Congrats!!!... You ladies made it
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Good morning ladies. =) Thank you to all your well-wishes and babydust to each and everyone! (I can't believe I'm saying this! So unreal)

Ceraine
So where have you planned on going for your trip? Better book soon cos school holidays & Christmas period always very hard to get tickets. Since Dr Loh also going away right? =] Have you heard from miracle yet??

syrah & sesame
I'm happy if it's a singleton, twins will be bonus lor. Right now, nothing is confirmed until scan. Will update all of you. Meanwhile it's back to the 2WW till my 1st U/S scan. Torture... =P

hope4bb
I took my hpt on 12dp3dt. So if yours was a 2dt, I guess you can try hpt on 13dp? I wasn't on pregnyl jab during 2WW.
 
Soul, may I know if you did ICSI as well? My hubby also has poor morphology, like not even 1%.

Val, tks for sharing your journey. Your sharing was definitely motivational. Right now, stay happy and I am sure you will see strong heartbeats soon.

Can someone tell me when you will know the results of the bt you did on cd2? Kkh never call me. Can I call them? What number should I call?
Did anyone do a bt on the day you went financial counseling? Both my hubby and I did. I was under impression that test is also for rubella. However, the bt on my cd2 was also for rubella apart from testing the fsh. Did I double do?
 
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Erm, what is ICSI? Sorry I dunno the terms very well. But I think they did write the term ICSI on my papers. Mine is long protocol. My hubby's morphology was like 3% or something. Very low also. But I guess it's a combination of factors from both sides bah.
 
Soul, ICSI is they will inject one sperm into one egg to fertilize instead of putting them into one tray to fertilize naturally.

No one really told me if I can start ivf. I just assumed I can. Basically, I have af like clockwork every mth but I do not ovulate. Did not even realized this until like nearly 2 years of ttc. Perhaps my eggs will not be too good too. You will not know until you go ER right?

Ceraine, I sent you a pm.
 
snuggly
Ya I think we did ICSI. I also don't ovulate and worse still, have very little oestrogen in my body, so basically I am a man. hahaha. Ya, I don't think we will know the quality of eggs until day of ET when they announce how many were or were not fertilised.

ceraine
Ok. =) Good to know she's ok. I hope she succeeded.
 



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