ponytail,
yes, this is my 1st ivf. Had one failed iui before. Trying to conceive for 3 years liao. Had tried all ways to conceive, so had been disappointed and devastated thousands of times. It is definitely not easy to stay positive all the time and be unaffected by any failures. But I guess, sometimes it is the numerous times of failures and disappointments that makes a person to be stronger and has more courage to face the unknown.
Anyway, I think must do personal reflections, asking what you really want in life and what are the most important things to you lor. For me, it helps, especially there was point of time that my life was just trying to have babies and nothing else, and so forgetting to appreciate and cherish what I am having. And then when faced with problems and failures, I got depressions very easily and was very sensitive towards people's words.
So that is what I thought can help oneself to stay more positive and not give up.