Winniewiniepooh. We same BT date. Hi fiveMy BT will be 13 Nov, still 11 more days to go .... Time runs real slow
Winniewiniepooh. We same BT date. Hi fiveMy BT will be 13 Nov, still 11 more days to go .... Time runs real slow
Think it's ok ba. I also had a few but rarely. It heals after awhile.Hi Sisters, need some advice here. Will acupuncture harm our reproductive system? Sometimes I see blue black on the acu point after the session, is this okay?
Actually you can eat spicy food, that definitely will not harm the embryos (look at Indians counterparts). But why spicy food is discouraged because it will cause bloatedness, indigestion etc during this period, esp if you have OHSS / cramping and etc and we tend to amplify whatever symptom we have during this period. Hence, eating light and easy-to-digest food helps during this period.Hope I am not doing something wrong ... Was trying to finish work so had the fastest lunch my office canteen has which is curry rice... I didn't eat much just the meat and few spoonful of rice and now feeling uncomfortable .... Like the chest is burning ?? It is not the first time I am eating this ....
Are we not allowed to eat spicy food during 2ww??
Thanks Mesara, feels more relieve hearing that. Think the assistant kiap the clip on the needle and too near to my skin surface, now it turns purplish and abit swollen. Will take note in future.Think it's ok ba. I also had a few but rarely. It heals after awhile.
That's just bruises on the surface. The needles are not able to penetrate into layers of skin and fat to touch the reproductive parts.Hi Sisters, need some advice here. Will acupuncture harm our reproductive system? Sometimes I see blue black on the acu point after the session, is this okay?
Thanks towkayneo. Coz feeling uncomfortable around the area where there is blue black.That's just bruises on the surface. The needles are not able to penetrate into layers of skin and fat to touch the reproductive parts.
Ya...the only concern is wrong acupoint. Unless you go to established acupuncturists like the ones named by the ladies, else best not to go to unheard-of, cos you don't know how strong their skills are.Thanks towkayneo. Coz feeling uncomfortable around the area where there is blue black.
Oh thanks for sharing sister.No, don't use feminine wash. My dr's assistant reminded me that after FET.
As for BD-ing, I think during 2ww cannot BD.
Ya ya jia you togetherWinniewiniepooh. We same BT date. Hi five
I am seeing dr zou at amkYa...the only concern is wrong acupoint. Unless you go to established acupuncturists like the ones named by the ladies, else best not to go to unheard-of, cos you don't know how strong their skills are.
Sisters, nurse called after my BT results, I have to do blood test again this wed. My beta reading is 88, they say is too low.
What is the safe zone reading?
So does it mean I'm in between now? Pregnant or maybe not pregnant? Feeling distressed now...
But I'm still bleeding now...Still have hope! Don't give up yet. Maybe ur bb is a late implanter. Stay positive.
Gynae gave me proluton jab. He checked me and say is not very encouraging...feel so down now as I sees the bleed each time...
DH say I need to remain strong and positive now so that the embbies can stay strong...
I am finding it so difficult as I cried when the gynae told me not encouraging...
Sonique2001, don't let anything affect you now, more inportantly just rest yourself and free your mind from negative thoughts. Will pray for you togetherBut I'm still bleeding now...
Thanks sista! Already lying on bed now..trying very hard to stay positive...Sista, dont give up! Still got chance. Go back and have 100% rest now. We will all be praying hard for u!
Thanks dear. I am really grateful to get so many encouragement from Sistas here...thank you so much to all...Sonique2001, don't let anything affect you now, more inportantly just rest yourself and free your mind from negative thoughts. Will pray for you together
Someone shared with me that God (or the higher authority out there) answers in three ways: He says yes & gives you what you want; He says no & gives you something better, or; He says wait & gives you the best.Gynae gave me proluton jab. He checked me and say is not very encouraging...feel so down now as I sees the bleed each time...
DH say I need to remain strong and positive now so that the embbies can stay strong...
I am finding it so difficult as I cried when the gynae told me not encouraging...
Thanks dearie...Someone shared with me that God (or the higher authority out there) answers in three ways: He says yes & gives you what you want; He says no & gives you something better, or; He says wait & gives you the best.
Dearie, I hope you find the strength & will to embrace yourself with positive energy for your embies. Just give them all your best and hang on. Will be praying for u. *hugs*
Yup, there's really nothing you can do except to rest and not worry...worrying doesn't make things better ah... maybe Wednesday will have good news.Ok there's nothing I can do now except rest and rest..
Hi continue to talk to embbies and ask them stick to u... I was bleeding a lot during first trimester and even hospitalized . Like u I was crying very badly in the ward and one of the nurse came and held my hands telling me to be strong and don't cry as the babies can hear ... She asked me to continue to talk to the embbies.Gynae gave me proluton jab. He checked me and say is not very encouraging...feel so down now as I sees the bleed each time...
DH say I need to remain strong and positive now so that the embbies can stay strong...
I am finding it so difficult as I cried when the gynae told me not encouraging...
Sonique2001, lie on bed. Put one pillow below your thigh. Like a V shape.Thanks sista! Already lying on bed now..trying very hard to stay positive...
Ok thanks piglet02...Sonique2001, lie on bed. Put one pillow below your thigh. Like a V shape.
Hi Emma, if iui was not ideal for you, don't give up. Move on to ivf. I failed my iui one time over a 1 year period from trying natural with injections and clomids. Nurse ok, not Doctor ask me to ask doc to go straight ivf. From a failed iui in Feb, I start ivf end April and bfp end May. Just need to go for the right protocol. Baby dusts to you.Hi Ladies, today mark the end of my 5th iui with Puregon. Kinda of upset with the whole year of hard work / efforts / money and then no outcome. Sometimes really wonder why god is so unfair and making things so unfair for us. At work , taking leaves is a problem; fine I quit. Quiting means I go by subsidies route, yet suffer under the mercy of MO doctor and their errors. If there is a god above, why don't they see the suffering we have. Why challenge us till the last drop. Seeing friends announcement on pregnancy on facebook mark a double triple wound on us. Seriously feel like to delete Facebook and change my number. Haha..at times really wish I have the courage to end all this.
Hi Emma, if iui was not ideal for you, don't give up. Move on to ivf. I failed my iui one time over a 1 year period from trying natural with injections and clomids. Nurse ok, not Doctor ask me to ask doc to go straight ivf. From a failed iui in Feb, I start ivf end April and bfp end May. Just need to go for the right protocol. Baby dusts to you.
*HUGS* I feel you. Many of us have been there. This is where we come to vent and find support. Yes support not just from anybody but from sisters who truly get us on this journey. We know there are no answers to some questions. We also know there are some things no longer in our control. With the comfort we find to soothe our deflated self, hopefully we will again fill with courage for the next option, be it a new & unknown path, doing our best to tackle every hurdle within our control. We have done it before so have faith we can do it once more.Hi Ladies, today mark the end of my 5th iui with Puregon. Kinda of upset with the whole year of hard work / efforts / money and then no outcome. Sometimes really wonder why god is so unfair and making things so unfair for us. At work , taking leaves is a problem; fine I quit. Quiting means I go by subsidies route, yet suffer under the mercy of MO doctor and their errors. If there is a god above, why don't they see the suffering we have. Why challenge us till the last drop. Seeing friends announcement on pregnancy on facebook mark a double triple wound on us. Seriously feel like to delete Facebook and change my number. Haha..at times really wish I have the courage to end all this.
But I'm still bleeding now...
Hi Ladies, today mark the end of my 5th iui with Puregon. Kinda of upset with the whole year of hard work / efforts / money and then no outcome. Sometimes really wonder why god is so unfair and making things so unfair for us. At work , taking leaves is a problem; fine I quit. Quiting means I go by subsidies route, yet suffer under the mercy of MO doctor and their errors. If there is a god above, why don't they see the suffering we have. Why challenge us till the last drop. Seeing friends announcement on pregnancy on facebook mark a double triple wound on us. Seriously feel like to delete Facebook and change my number. Haha..at times really wish I have the courage to end all this.
Thanks dear, *big hugs back*Keep talking to your embryos. Bleeding may not mean it's not BFP. Some ppl do bleed from time to time during pregnancy. Keeping telling your embryos to hold on. *big hugs*
Thanks dear, *big hugs back*
Yes I will do so, thanks gal.Hi Sonique2001,
I think that anything above 50 is considered pregnant, in terms of hcg readings.
Just bed rest these few days, do not move around, do not go out. And most importantly, have faith and pray.
Hi babe.. i tried 4 iui with 2nd one chemical pregnancy ..so near yet so far and I have already set my mind to move on to ivf. Time and tide waits for no man. Don't ponder over the failed iui ..just tell yourself iui don't wrk move on to ivf .. more risks but higher chance than iui relativelyHi Ladies, today mark the end of my 5th iui with Puregon. Kinda of upset with the whole year of hard work / efforts / money and then no outcome. Sometimes really wonder why god is so unfair and making things so unfair for us. At work , taking leaves is a problem; fine I quit. Quiting means I go by subsidies route, yet suffer under the mercy of MO doctor and their errors. If there is a god above, why don't they see the suffering we have. Why challenge us till the last drop. Seeing friends announcement on pregnancy on facebook mark a double triple wound on us. Seriously feel like to delete Facebook and change my number. Haha..at times really wish I have the courage to end all this.
Esp when bt is so close for me...I just can't wait to get it done and over with. The emotions are giving me a roller coaster ride.My BT will be 13 Nov, still 11 more days to go .... Time runs real slow
Yes I will do so, thanks gal.
Thanks dear..Keeping my fingers crossed and praying for you....
Don't worry dear, as long as no AF there's a good chance...Esp when bt is so close for me...I just can't wait to get it done and over with. The emotions are giving me a roller coaster ride.
Ya I can understand ... I plan to test at home first when it is 11 days post ET, To have mentally preparation firstEsp when bt is so close for me...I just can't wait to get it done and over with. The emotions are giving me a roller coaster ride.
Jia youThanks dear..
Afternoon if I am not wrong .Anyone knows if dr tan HH has morning or afternoon clinic at tps/clinic d tomorrow?
Am also praying that your beta rise and gives u relief dear. Take care.Don't worry dear, as long as no AF there's a good chance...
Take care too gal. Look forward to hear good news from you.Am also praying that your beta rise and gives u relief dear. Take care.
Hey hey, don't be so sad! We are all here to support one another!! It's never an easy journey. We envy those who can get preggy just by sneezing, we also envy those ivf-ers who strike at first try.. But it's never the end till we menopause!Thank you ladies. I felt really bad today as i was ask to abandon this cycle. I have lost my soul and really don't know how to continue my journey. Queby77 and Chubby1314 I started my journey around your time too in Dec 2014. I Rem reading all your post here last time. And that you guys have graduated and I am still here. Really appreciate these comforting words. Thank you
The disadvantage on nuh is I always get different doc and the opinion greatly differs. Every cycle end up crying. Got successful once yet lost it. Everyday looking forward to start a new journey, full of hope yet I fail badly. I lead a life full of obstacle but nv have I felt so bad before. I nv give up.. but unforunately strong forces want me to quit my career of 10 years and now that forces is targeting for me to give up hope on getting pregnant. i feel my strong heart and body is letting go. Really hard to carry on. After every fail cycle I cry myself to sleep for days..
And yes next is ivf. But I doubt I can afford 3 cycle. Life is so tough and cruel. Where else can I seek help ... is there going to be an end. Or is god hoping that I end this myself
Hey hey, don't be so sad! We are all here to support one another!! It's never an easy journey. We envy those who can get preggy just by sneezing, we also envy those ivf-ers who strike at first try.. But it's never the end till we menopause!
Are u a Singaporean? There is govt grant up till 3 cycles and u can use medisave as well! Are u a subsidized patient at nuh? Maybe u can consider switching to pte for ivf as there's no additional subsidy once u start ivf except for probaby those blood test.. Maybe u wanna share your woes here so that u can find some comfort here. Stay strong!