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flowersfruits
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Sticky: mil always think their son no problem de. To them it is always the dil problem .... Nv la just get used to it lor
karentey75
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Back. Bought conceive well n Coq 10 Liao. I'm gonna b a good girl n do more on my part! Yes!! Gambete!!
I'm blessed with nice in laws. Whole fam aware of my IVF n very supportive. Told my mil I failed this round n she's very encouraging n understanding. Love them to the bits
I'm blessed with nice in laws. Whole fam aware of my IVF n very supportive. Told my mil I failed this round n she's very encouraging n understanding. Love them to the bits
Serene,
My parents and in-laws have been very supportive too. (Although my mom initially wasn't and I was really very hurt and angry. But the good that came out of it was hubby learnt to cook cause we realised we cannot just rely on parents.)
All my meals during my 2ww were homecooked. Either my hubby would pick up from my mom's home or she would bring over to my place. She is now brewing stuff for me and my MIL has asked a few times whether I need soup, tonics etc.
It certainly helped in my case that my SIL and BIL took a number of years to conceive too. So there isn't the "blame" game.
I just spoke with my boss who asked me how everything went. He was very encouraging and told me - there will be light at the end of the tunnel. Don't worry.
My parents and in-laws have been very supportive too. (Although my mom initially wasn't and I was really very hurt and angry. But the good that came out of it was hubby learnt to cook cause we realised we cannot just rely on parents.)
All my meals during my 2ww were homecooked. Either my hubby would pick up from my mom's home or she would bring over to my place. She is now brewing stuff for me and my MIL has asked a few times whether I need soup, tonics etc.
It certainly helped in my case that my SIL and BIL took a number of years to conceive too. So there isn't the "blame" game.
I just spoke with my boss who asked me how everything went. He was very encouraging and told me - there will be light at the end of the tunnel. Don't worry.
flowersfruits
Active Member
Leor, I read somewhere it says wear sports bra to minimize movement of boobs then not so pain le. After your body normalize the hormones Liao then won't pain pain le, it shd b a happy problem
Hello everyone, I am back.....
Unfortunately not with good news. After the +ve bhcg, My pregnancy failed to develop. I am now waiting to see dr loh to schedule a d&c.
May I know how soon fet can be done? What am I supposed to expect? Do I need to jab again? Or can just go for et? Need to eat meds anot? Thank u for advice.
Unfortunately not with good news. After the +ve bhcg, My pregnancy failed to develop. I am now waiting to see dr loh to schedule a d&c.
May I know how soon fet can be done? What am I supposed to expect? Do I need to jab again? Or can just go for et? Need to eat meds anot? Thank u for advice.
hokkaidolavender
Member
Hi gals,
Just checking that after et right, we will feel bloated. Will this bloatedness subside after a few days? I read in the net that when pregnancy occurs, the bloatedness will be still there one. Is it true? Anyone here bloated after et, subside but bfp?
When will implantation takes place after a 2 day embryo transfer? Will there be implantation without spotting?
Just checking that after et right, we will feel bloated. Will this bloatedness subside after a few days? I read in the net that when pregnancy occurs, the bloatedness will be still there one. Is it true? Anyone here bloated after et, subside but bfp?
When will implantation takes place after a 2 day embryo transfer? Will there be implantation without spotting?
hi love, stickybfp, somtimes i feel tat communication play apart. we let them know tat since there is o fertility issue wif hub n i, n we hav try ttc naturally for 2 yrs, therefore e only way to get preggy is ivf. i even went to e extend to explain e entire ivf procedures to them. most important is to let them understand. my mil also said nowsaday many hk stars also do ivf. so ivf is quite common.
<font color="aa00aa">Hokkaido -
**this is what happens in a 3dt :
1dpt ..embryo is growing and developing
2dpt... Embryo is now a blastocyst
3dpt....Blastocyst hatches out of shell on this day
4dpt.. Blastocyst attaches to a site on the uterine lining
5dpt.. Implantation begins,as the blastocyst begins to bury in the lining
6dpt.. Implantation process continues and morula buries deeper in the lining
7dpt.. Morula is completely inmplanted in the lining and has placenta cells &
fetal cells
8dpt...Placenta cells begin to secret HCG in the blood
9dpt...More HCG is produced as fetus develops
10dpt...More HCG is produced as fetus develops
11dpt...HCG levels are now high enough to be immediately detected on
HPT
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**this is what happens in a 5dt :
-1dpt ..embryo is growing and developing
0dpt... Embryo is now a blastocyst
1dpt....Blastocyst hatches out of shell on this day
2dpt.. Blastocyst attaches to a site on the uterine lining
3dpt.. Implantation begins,as the blastocyst begins to bury in the lining
4dpt.. Implantation process continues and morula buries deeper in the lining
5dpt.. Morula is completely inmplanted in the lining and has placenta cells &
fetal cells
6dpt...Placenta cells begin to secret HCG in the blood
7dpt...More HCG is produced as fetus develops
8dpt...More HCG is produced as fetus develops
9dpt...HCG levels are now high enough to be immediately detected on
HPT
Read more: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_happens_after_ivf_egg_transfer#ixzz1Fztc0VMV</font>
**this is what happens in a 3dt :
1dpt ..embryo is growing and developing
2dpt... Embryo is now a blastocyst
3dpt....Blastocyst hatches out of shell on this day
4dpt.. Blastocyst attaches to a site on the uterine lining
5dpt.. Implantation begins,as the blastocyst begins to bury in the lining
6dpt.. Implantation process continues and morula buries deeper in the lining
7dpt.. Morula is completely inmplanted in the lining and has placenta cells &
fetal cells
8dpt...Placenta cells begin to secret HCG in the blood
9dpt...More HCG is produced as fetus develops
10dpt...More HCG is produced as fetus develops
11dpt...HCG levels are now high enough to be immediately detected on
HPT
===========
**this is what happens in a 5dt :
-1dpt ..embryo is growing and developing
0dpt... Embryo is now a blastocyst
1dpt....Blastocyst hatches out of shell on this day
2dpt.. Blastocyst attaches to a site on the uterine lining
3dpt.. Implantation begins,as the blastocyst begins to bury in the lining
4dpt.. Implantation process continues and morula buries deeper in the lining
5dpt.. Morula is completely inmplanted in the lining and has placenta cells &
fetal cells
6dpt...Placenta cells begin to secret HCG in the blood
7dpt...More HCG is produced as fetus develops
8dpt...More HCG is produced as fetus develops
9dpt...HCG levels are now high enough to be immediately detected on
HPT
Read more: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_happens_after_ivf_egg_transfer#ixzz1Fztc0VMV</font>
hi hok,
yes... after bfp will still be bloated...
and yes implantation can be without spotting
this web will tell u when implantation and baby heartbeat etc http://www.ivf.ca/duedate.php
yes... after bfp will still be bloated...
and yes implantation can be without spotting
this web will tell u when implantation and baby heartbeat etc http://www.ivf.ca/duedate.php
hokkaidolavender
Member
Snuuggly,
Long time no see. Sorry to heard about your news. Rest well and jia you again. Do you have any frozen embryos? If there is u dun have to go thr all the jabs.
Long time no see. Sorry to heard about your news. Rest well and jia you again. Do you have any frozen embryos? If there is u dun have to go thr all the jabs.
<font color="aa00aa">Serene - depends on if you have objective in laws or not...mine are those that thinks the sun shines out of my husband's (and all their son's) you-know-what...and that I am never good enough for them...and their son very poor thing marry me type...
So no point - I rather protect myself and my emotions. Not everyone's parents are rationle people la
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So no point - I rather protect myself and my emotions. Not everyone's parents are rationle people la
hokkaidolavender
Member
Sticky,
So in between the 2ww period, the bloatedness will 'haunt' us everyday? So will it subside and appear again?
So in between the 2ww period, the bloatedness will 'haunt' us everyday? So will it subside and appear again?
<font color="aa00aa">Sticky - you and your "fatty" arms & legs..
I am very pragmatic about in laws situation la - as long as I remain respectful and polite to them, I have told myself to not expect much. It is not that I don't love them, I do, its just that I cannot and should not expect anything in return. Though I alrady know when they run into trouble, they will come to me to resolve it =...hahahahahahaa</font>
I am very pragmatic about in laws situation la - as long as I remain respectful and polite to them, I have told myself to not expect much. It is not that I don't love them, I do, its just that I cannot and should not expect anything in return. Though I alrady know when they run into trouble, they will come to me to resolve it =...hahahahahahaa</font>
karentey75
New Member
Hi snuggly, have u fixed apt with Dr Loh? U can also try calling KK n check with the nurse. Mayb they can help u abit on Yr queries. Hugs!
Sisters, y is it my menses so cramp ah? Damn painful xia. Argh! N the SMEP hor, can start trying immediately after failed cycle of IVF??
Sisters, y is it my menses so cramp ah? Damn painful xia. Argh! N the SMEP hor, can start trying immediately after failed cycle of IVF??
<font color="aa00aa">Snuuggly- last time Dr Loh made me test every other 2-3 days, if HCG going up naturally then he worry about seeing the sac cos may be eptopic.
I ended up going to my own gynae for D&C cos I needed to travel and wanted closure. He did the surgery immediately after consult, since we already reach a conclusion.
I was also seaarching for answers - but there are none - take comfort in knowing that at least can implant ..that's what some docs tell me. I think I spoke to 5 docs!!</font>
I ended up going to my own gynae for D&C cos I needed to travel and wanted closure. He did the surgery immediately after consult, since we already reach a conclusion.
I was also seaarching for answers - but there are none - take comfort in knowing that at least can implant ..that's what some docs tell me. I think I spoke to 5 docs!!</font>
CEO, I am already waiting to see dr loh now.
Shoes, I was supposed to see dr loh last week but I pushed off coz I went to pte gynae after my first scan. So dun think he will ask me to do hcg. If later scan no change from last time, he already said dnc required. I know sure no change from last time since I just scan yesterday.
Shoes, I was supposed to see dr loh last week but I pushed off coz I went to pte gynae after my first scan. So dun think he will ask me to do hcg. If later scan no change from last time, he already said dnc required. I know sure no change from last time since I just scan yesterday.
karentey75
New Member
Thks Ron
Omg! My menses cramp is really killing me *faint
Omg! My menses cramp is really killing me *faint
flowersfruits
Active Member
I realize u gals went thru so much more than me, bravo!