Jily
Nope, its not in KL. 6 hours will be very stress, I would suggest that you take a flight from JB to KL, expensive a bit, but save time, and also more safe. U know, the journey is so far and also the road is so rocky. Diff clinic have diff protocol. I will tell u which doctor after the 2ww . Promise not to reveal the doc name till success.
Hui
I cant tell my boss , as worry that he will be unhappy. Well, still cracking my head when to tell.
Humble
Dont worry, think positive. Have strong faith. Sorry, me bit kuku, dont really know what are the shortform in the forum. I rem I saw it , like the definition of AF, HB, etc cant find it anymore.
Can guide me
Just to share my story with u all :-
We been married for 5 years, and only TTC 3 years ago. We hold back the first 2 years, thinking that we still want to enjoy and also not ready yet.
Then try for 3 years, still nothing
Actually, we don't really have active life sex also, as DH always traveling.
After 1 year still nothing , then I use thermometer to measure my temperature every day (for 1 year) then I give up. Thought that when the temperature is high than other normal days, then that's my ovulation, and we try on that particular day, but still nothing.
Then bought the ovulation predictor kit also (try for 9 mths) still nothing. At that time, I had very irregular menses and every time I miss my period, will buy the pregnancy kit but negative result.
Also had eat fertility pills for 2 years. Then swop to chinese medicines (3 months only) which can make my womb more stronger. But still nothing. I myself went for body check up, and check that my uterus/womb are fine, and everything is ok , except for irregular menses and doctor gave me pills to regulate my menses also. Then menses had been very very regular every month for 1 year plus. Just hate it, when mensen become so super regular L Everytime menses come, feel so sad
I never told DH about all the ups and down I went thru, don't want him to worry too much also. He don't even know that I'm eating medicines and pills, and also bout the thermometer.
I had very good and understanding PIL. MIL only asked me twice, first time she say "Two of you have good career, house, car, etc, can try to plan for BB, this year is Monkey year, very good year". Then we just nodded our head. And second time (maybe 3 years later), she say " perhaps two of you can go to KKH and do a body check up". DH told her " We know the best what we want, don't ask me this again". I just keep quiet. I must say that MIL is very understanding and she really treat me very well. No nagging, no bragging, no gossip, etc. I have 2 nice sister in laws also, they never ask me this question, and even tell my MIL that "don't worry ma, two of them know when to have kids, let nature take its course, don't stress them". Then until now, MIL never ask both of us anymore. I feel very guilty everytime I go home for dinner.
DH never say want to go for medical check up. Both of us just let nature takes it course. I'm Msian and SPR now. Then one day, my mum ask me to go for check up. This doctor in Msia , and coincidently me and DH also had booked ticket for short holiday back to hometown. Never told my DH bout the check up arrangement. And on the day we arrive, I went to see doctor first, coz I know DH would never agree to have body check up. U know lah, guys feel very inferior when ask them to go for check up. When reach clinic with my mum, the doc still want DH to go together and doctor refuse to let me do check up, coz he only consult couples. So no choice , had to go back and told DH bout it. Pluck lot of courage and confidence to tell him. He angry of course, and hesitate . After persuading him and tell him the trauma that I been facing, he become soft hearted, and agree. So we went to see doctor the next day. And had full body check up. And doctor recommended us 3 methods of treatment (IUI, IVF and ICSI), and also the duration and price. The doctor say, I want my patient to listen to me and trust me, if I say its suitable for you to do IUI , then you do.
One week later, the blood test and semen results is out, I called the doctor. Found out that DH having very low sperm count. Only 10% is normal, and if we try to conceive naturally, it will be impossible. Chat with doctor bout 1 hr, and realize that the low sperm count is also due to DH nature of work. Doc suggest we take ICSI.
Then, two days later, I spoken to DH bout the results, and he is very very upset and affected by the results. And want to put on hold the treatment and give us another two years. We quarrel again. We didnt speak to each other for 3 days, we just work late and want to avoid each other. Long long story lah, 4 pages also not enuf. Anyway, 2 weeks later, try again, and pray and he agree loh.
The price range for :
IUI RM2K RM4K (6 months only)
IVF RM10K
ICSI RM14K-15K
The reason of choosing the treatment in Msia, coz I know how good is the doctor. In Spore, max we can put 3 embryos only, but in Msia they can put more. We can choose the gender also, but for 1st baby, we dont mind , as long as healthy baby. Oh yes, the doctor is also success in twins and triplets. Anyway, as long as my treatment is success, we dont mind to pay bit more. Its quite stressing for us also, as need to fork our own savings, cant use Medisave also. Thats the pro and con.
After reading this forum, noted that doctors in Spore would suggest IUI for 1st and 2nd time.
Acutally , I not sure how much is the above 3 treatments here? Can anyone just pm me if not convenient. Just the price range. Thanks.