IUI/SO-IUI: Anyone?

Laki, waiting to see doc in wheelchair now... I had a right ectopic Surgery in last year, now is my left side...

I hope I can take injection to stop the ectopic cos seriously I am v scare to go for another surgery... If need to do sursery, I dunno if I want to cut off my left tube or not...
 


Duffybear
Oh dear... Hugs to u.
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Dear all, Thks ... Feeling v upset and disappointed... Doc told me I need to go for ivf if I wanna to get pregnant cos it would be safer for me...

Now need to be warded cos doc say my condition is dangerous incase internal bleeding ...

Anyone done surgery by jerry at kkh??
 
Duffy bear: so sorry to hear this.. Hugs hugs..

Be strong and remember we are always here for you.

I have never done any surgery in kkh.. Can't help you in this..
 
I'm alone and arranging for awarded into hospital now...

Check wit u gals, if doing ivf will bypass the tubes, right?? The medical doc say if I dun remove the tubes, I might have chances of recurring ectopic pregnancy via ivf too???
 
Duffy: Did you keep intouch with your DH?

So, you get warded now and for observation only?

For IVF, what I understand is they fertilised the egg and put it into the womb. I don't know will it moves to the tube or not. By right, it shouldn't right?
 
Saralyn, I ask hb to get his sleep cos he worked from last night to this mrn... Later he will come to see me... I'm arranging to be awarded now.... Tonight need to decide what the option ... I'm so confused ... Injections need lone monitoring... And might affect my other organs... If hcg level is not down, still got to do surgery to remove it... Haiz...

Y let me strike on 1 egg but make me suffer all these???
 
Dear Duffy bear, oh dear, I'm so sorry to hear this. Hugz and wish that I can be physically there to give you a proper hug. Please take care and be strong. Can you call someone to be there with you soon? Since you are alone now, hopefully our presence here will help in some way.

Technically for IVF, your tubes will be bypassed. This is because they will harvest your eggs using a tube inserted through the womb. After that, the fertilized egg will be placed directly into the womb. So by right, your tubes will not be involved.

Please take care, your health is most important now.
 
Duffybear,
You had your blood test done right? did your hcg level rises from your past test? if its rising its really needed to be monitored and attended already.
Just be strong and were always here for you. Hugz.
 
Duffy bear, really sorry to hear wat happen. Hugs...

As wat Lil mention, for ivf it will bypass fallopian tube, it will juz go straight to d womb n d embryo will b implanted into d lining. When during et, it will b similar to IUI.

I think u shld discuss w ur dh first n talk to d dr, ur dr should b able to provide d best solution for u w minimal risk to u. Take gd care of urself. Hugs.....
 
Dear all, Thks... I arranging to admitte myself now ...

I feel better alone now... Didn't want anyone to be with me...

If ivf bypass the tubes, I wants to keep the tube ... Cos I feel helpless if I can only conceived via ivf method in future... Still hoping I can conceived naturally but... I know chances r v slim...
 
Duffy bear, are you seeing any TCM? if so, you can call them and ask ur TCM sinseh for 2nd opinion..ectopic pregnancy can happen even you do IVF? not sure how true is that..if this really true, then would it be safer to remove, then next time when you conceive you will have a peace of mind. just my 2cents opinion..
 
Duffy bear: we are so sorry to hear that. You got to be strong ok . If doc can give u an option, you still have a chance to conceive . Now concentrate to get urself well again ya .
Rem that you are not alone , you still have ur DH , family and us !! Hugs hugs ..
 
Actually for ivf, the doc is putting the embryo into the uterus.. But you won't know where the embryo will 'float' to.. There's still the risk of ectopic..
 
duffybear my aunt used to hav ectopic pregnancy b4. But managed to go give birth to a healthy baby boy which is now in his teens. The doc gav her 1 week. If e baby is ther ther n hcg arise, hav to do surgery. So she went back. She went to a malay traditional massage lady. She massage n gav her water to drink. Besides dat she olwaes pray for e safety of her baby in her. Miracle happen. E baby went in to e right placing. E doc was shocked.

So wat i wana say is don ever give up. Everything happen for a reason. Perservere n be strong ya. I noe its easier said den done. Discusss carefully wif DH on e next step ya.
 
Nurul, the yolk is far far away from the correct place it shld be...

I have 3 options: to wait another 2 days for a blood test and ultra sound to confirm it, the injection or lastly surgery...

Now waitIng for hb to bring my things so that I can bath and change into hospital clothings.... Will discuss with hb on the decisions .... Thinking of gg another surgery really freak me out!!
 
duffy bear, may be you can go to see Dr.Loh at Thomson fertility (novena) very near to KK. i'm not sure if ectopic is covered by insurance, if so, and you have your own insurance, why not go private..
 
Hi, my last ectopic surgery was covered under full insurance claim but need to do via Laparoscopy surgery.

But now, my ectopic pregnancy incurred cos I went for SO IUI hence I dunno whether claim able under insurance or not... My insurance agent is checking for me now...
 
Duffy Bear: Hugz Hugz..i am sorry to hear about it. Pls stay strong and believe in your bb..based on wat Nurul says, there can be miracles..just just keep thinking positively..

Wondersss: Actually, Dr Loh couldnt give me an answer why didnt IUI succeed...he didnt checked for my tube block cos he assumes that Dr Ann Tan would have done her proper check and no point wasting money...(I will kill myself if it ends up to be tube block..)..so guess he also doesnt know why didnt IUI succeed since i already hav 2 eggs..somehow, i think there must be a prob...there are stories of pple succeeding with only 1 egg..so somewhere, there must be a problem..but since IUI doesnt succeed for the 2nd time, he suggests ivf (ICSI)...while i wish i dont have to go down that route, looks like there isnt much choice if i wan to have my own bb..
 
Duffy Bear,

If you want, can call his clinic too.

The O&G Specialist Clinic
339 Thomson Road #05-06
Thomson Medical Centre
Singapore 307677

Tel: 6259 1819

Leave a voice mail or call tomorrow morning and say urgent case..
 
Duffy bear, if really ectopic pregnancy, can go for lap cos if by injection , from what know is very 伤身. Dr Loh did lap for me last mth . The wound heal quite fast . Later also have to monitor hcg level closely. If not clear very clean , then hav to inject...
Pls be strong & discuss with Ur dr in detail ...
Hugz.....
 
Prosepina & saralyn, Thks for the contact no...

Snoopy, u oso have ectopic pregnancy b4??? I was thinking to give injection a try since bb no heartbeat yet...

I will do another scan and blood test to confirm the ectopic pregnancy ... The medicial doc say it likely to be ectopic pregnancy as they saw a yoke ...
 
Dear Duffy bear,
Hugsss!!! U r a veri strong n amazing woman. I am sure everything will turn out fine for u.
Continue to pray n take care k. Rest well.
 
Duffy bear, as I m very pain at that time, dr only suggest to opt ASAP cos is dangerous , cant wait for injection.. The injection is to kill the cell to prevent develop again .. Think is not 1 jab only, but few & really need to monitor closely ....
Better discuss with Ur dr in details before decision...
U also hav ectopic pregnancy b4? How Ur dr do ?
U at kkh now?
 
Duffy: hugs!! Im sorry to hear that.. pls do not give up ok.. as everyone says, there might be a miracle! as for the possible options from the doc.. be brave.. we are here for u..

Dream, oic.. i have a long talk with my hubby & he say if ivf is a better option, then so be it.. since the $ is going to be spend, spend it with a option thats gives us a higher chance of sucess rate...
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guess i will be going thru ivf directly..
 
Snoopy, I had a right ectopic surgery in last year... Now is the left side... But I was given surgery option cos the bb size was too big and got heartbeat ...

Hai.... I got pregnant on 1 egg fm this SO IUI but end up another ectopic pregnancy... Feeling sad, disappointed and confusing now...
 
Dear all, I request for another scanning to confirm it... Yd report was suspected ectopic pregnancy... Hb was hoping for miracle and he praying hard the yolk will go down to the right place...

Doc told me that injection to terminate for my case is high ...
 
Duffybear
Crossing my fingers for ur scan! Hugs.

My af came today. On day16 after iui! I must be the most sway person ard.... Tomorrow due for blood test, now no need to go already....
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. After all the needle poking, the butt poking,..i feel like a lost warrior. Totally defeated. Haih..
 
Laki, Yeap... Hopefully it goes down to the right place...

Joelle, dun feel discourage... At least u can try again... Unlike me, I got pregnant but bb doesnt go down at the right place...
 
Duffybear
Hugs. I know i shouldn't be complaining now. Let's try hard together after this. Ok? Then again... Maybe a miracle is still waiting for u... Pray hard first.
 
Joelle, hugs... I know how u feel...

Today is 10dpiui and last 2 days I had extremely sore breasts, which is usually a sign of my af coming. Today the soreness subsided so maybe af is coming soon? Sigh... I also feel v defeated but what to do? If we want a bb, we just hv to keep on trying. So yes, jia you!!

Duffy, do seek a second opinion from dr Loh or any other experienced drs. Hugs to u... I had 2 miscarriages too... Cos I have lupus and thyroid antibodies that automatically reject mr fetuses. Hugs and be brave.
 
Dear all, just finished my scanning and the bb yoke still at the tube... Checked on website and find out only injection or surgery is the option for my case...

So waiting for hb to discuss on which option ... Likely to go for injection and in case it doesn't work, the last option will be surgery for back up...
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I really v scare and freaked out on surgery ... Too coward of me, right??
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Duffy bear, hugs n sayang. Dont say that ok, u are not coward at all. From wat u experience, u r strong gal. Nv gve up any hope k, jy n soon miracle will happen to us.
 
Duffy bear: hugs.... I would suggest you seek a second opinion. Be strong.. Is very common for us to be scared and freaked out when we heard surgery.. You are normal..
 
hugs duffy bear! you are totally not coward, when that time i did my eggs retrieval for IVF i also scared..

injection and surgery, which is less harmful to your body?
 
Dear all, I called my tcm and she advise me to terminate the pregnancy ASAP... She told me can try injection first...

I think I try the injection first...
 
Duffy Bear: Hugz hugz.. r u going to discuss with ur HB? never feel that u are a coward...no one will understand what u r going through..so whatever u decide,we will be here to support u..
 
Duffy, yes we are all here to support you. You are so brave already for go through so much. Now that it is decided that it is best to terminate, your health is the highest priority. Please take care! Be strong. Breath. Stay calm and carry on. Hugs!
 

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