Long story short.....
Last year me and my husband had many arguments.
We had a home office and my husband hired one of his old friends, she was a little too close to him for my comfort which I only realized once she was working there full time.
I would come home to see
- her flirting with the whole team (all guys) but not so much my husband
- sitting on a few of their laps
- wearing short skirts and barely there tops
- changing clothes in my living space/bedroom
- laughing and giggling at every remark even when its a serious topic
- having my husband drive her even 200 meters to the mrt
The final straw was her texting my husbands work group chat one day I was off sick, "..... shes home today" (shocked face) like I she can talk about me to my husband like that in our own home which unfortunately has the office in.
I knew she was looking to get with one of the guys and low behold she did, fortunately for ladies here the guy was single at the time (but it didnt stop her flirting with the married ones)
CNY was the worst as I had to see her at my husbands BF house when we went visiting.
I utterly don't respect this bitch, I actually am on the verge of smacking her as there has been no apology or settlement. She knows Im damn pissed with her. Yet she has the cheek to act high and mighty and tell the mother in law im the bitch.
Would be useful if anyone could give direction? In the west i would confront her but she is singaporean and my husband says i have to be civil.
Last year me and my husband had many arguments.
We had a home office and my husband hired one of his old friends, she was a little too close to him for my comfort which I only realized once she was working there full time.
I would come home to see
- her flirting with the whole team (all guys) but not so much my husband
- sitting on a few of their laps
- wearing short skirts and barely there tops
- changing clothes in my living space/bedroom
- laughing and giggling at every remark even when its a serious topic
- having my husband drive her even 200 meters to the mrt
The final straw was her texting my husbands work group chat one day I was off sick, "..... shes home today" (shocked face) like I she can talk about me to my husband like that in our own home which unfortunately has the office in.
I knew she was looking to get with one of the guys and low behold she did, fortunately for ladies here the guy was single at the time (but it didnt stop her flirting with the married ones)
CNY was the worst as I had to see her at my husbands BF house when we went visiting.
I utterly don't respect this bitch, I actually am on the verge of smacking her as there has been no apology or settlement. She knows Im damn pissed with her. Yet she has the cheek to act high and mighty and tell the mother in law im the bitch.
Would be useful if anyone could give direction? In the west i would confront her but she is singaporean and my husband says i have to be civil.
