mom2nat,
yalor, we take MC also as if we can sleep and rest all day. yah, luckily i got maid, so she can help with the housework and heavy chores. but my dd now getting fussier and fussier, she doesn't want the maid AT ALL! she won't let the maid do anything for her or to play with her. she only wants me or daddy. when my maid tries to play with her or tries to help her with something, she will shout "AUNTY, NO!!!" and push my maid away!