<font color="aa00aa">pau ling lim:
in a way... i still have nightmares of my pregnant days.
my girl is the 1st grandchild that my in laws have and they are quite old already. both 70 yrs old. when i got pregnant, i didnt expect them to treat me any differently but i was very shocked that one day, my mil served me overnight fish (still in the fridge) and told me to eat with plain porridge.
from then on, i knew...
i live with them and they have a large flat; 4 bedrooms. my hub and i tried to clear one room for my girl but we incurred the wrath of my fil who told my husband blankly in the face we should move instead of clear stuff. i was 7 months pregnant then.
to cut the story short, after my girl was born, also a lot of problems cuz my mil pretended that she dint know how to do confinement so my hub asked my mum over and in the one month that my mum was here, my mil also gave her face... mil would sweep the floor but deliberately give the room which my mum was staying in a miss (although my mum was not in the room) she would also gossip to my hub about this and that and they were always in the kitchen or balcony talking. but when i was in sight, she would move away.
anyways things between my hub and i got really bad and we quarrelled a lot then.
my mum felt so bad and i felt worse for putting my mum in the spot. things between my hub and my mum also not rosy cuz in the mornings when my hub left for work, although both my mum and my fil in the living room, my hub would only greet my fil and leave my mum out.
my girl would be sleeping in her cot and my mil would say, the bed very good next time. xy(her daughter) gets pregnant, can use. every thing that i got for my girl, my mil wanted to give to others, or save for her own daughters to get pregnant.. sigh.. my girl is already 3 and my sils have no intention of giving birth yet my mil still wants to give this away, give that away. if my girl not using .. fine but she still is.
anyways, i still get nightmares... so i really dont want to relive those moments.
sorry for the long post.. hee..
live your dreams:
oh my!!! hee... you must have gone crazy in that store!! i would ... and i would feel worse cuz my hub wouldnt let me get anything. </font>