Hi Tricia,
This time( my 3rd one) was done by Dr J Wong was pretty good and the stitch was about 1 cm.. Was also thinking about whether there's a difference bet the 1st birth and the subsequent ones.. This is my observation :
My first one was done by a male gynae also in TMC, the stitch was quite long and it hurt for a few weeks.. maybe for the first birth, the cervix took some time to open, so the cut was longer ..
for my 2nd one, also done by this gynae was quite ok, I was walking steadily without any pain aft the 2nd day.. think the cut was also shorter
This time round was even better, by the 3rd week, I did not feel anything at all..
Also, as my bb was facing upwards, the contractions were slowed down during labour, Dr Wong skillfully turned the bb to face downwards.. didn't know about this at all !
Hope this information helps..
Try natural birth first.. i was very tempted to go thru c-section for my first one.. thankfully .. I didn't, recovery is better for n-birth and there's no need to wash the wound
plus lesser pain
Cheers !