angel,
i agree totally with what u said!
i gave my helper a room, even can switch on air-conditional at nite, by 9pm can rest and relax, 7am then wake up, she just do basic housework, no need to take care of my little gal, no need to cook, every sat shopping with me.
yet after 3 months, she said she worked very hard and want to transfer. gosh!
we let her go.. ended up in another employer doing alot of things (that employer is a friend of my mum! the world is so small). within 3 months, she ran away from the house!!! The employer was so scared that she called my mum.
i guess sometimes it depends on luck..
if u r fortunate enough, will get a good 1.. else, u get shit lor.