Gan,
Nowadays after work ends, I straight away come home and don't go out anymore on weekends, meals will ask hubby to tabao back as no energy to cook now. You will feel more and more fatigue into the coming weeks so do let body rest as much as possible and sleep whenever you can k. At office, I also find it useful to just close eyes for 15 mins and rest during lunch, it will help to restore some energy for the afternoon session. Rest rest rest when got chance k, it’s the only way to reserve energy once you go back to work.
So so glad red is becoming pink and it will soon be white white and just white..hehee..
Also, remember, when you wipe, be gentle and careful and try not to "wipe big area", just tap because don't want you to wipe so "big area" that no good stuff from near anus come to front. If you are still wearing party liner, tyr to stop alright because party liner gives yeast over a while (blocks flow of air to vaginal) esp since you are on antibiotics.
Miraclebaby
Yes, failing the ivf does set us thinking about ourselves a lot and challenges our confidence. But like Lyn said, actually ivfers are the bravest and most admirable souls on earth. Not everyone has the guts and willingness to sacrifice to do the program but you gals (including me..heeeee) did. I always tell my hubby, girls who do ivf are so gutsy that they risk our lives (hyperstimulation consequence can be serious as ivfers all know) and put our heads on the chopping board many times not for themselves but for their family and everytime, he will nod and nod.
So be proud of yourself ultimately k k
Faith
No no…heeee..actually a lot of things I learnt from forum sisters too, just that maybe I kiasu, I will remember them once I see them. Means maybe you can follow the diet for general kidney deficiency. Basically "xu" means kidney deficiency if she did not specifically pinpoint if its yin or yang. Eat more black sesame seed and red beans, these two can "bu" women with "xu" body type.
Sorry for the late reply, has your menses come? For kkh, I know they want your menses to come before the program in general while for nuh, no need (I know one sister did under nuh, did not get her menses after lucrin, went on with stimulation and bfped). So while I believe it is not necessary for menses to come, its better to call kkh as they have a strict protocol and you don't want to have second thoughts later.
Rostrum
Yes, her diagnosis of you is kidney yang deficiency (xu1). Don't mention, I did not do much. I believe what she said is true since you said you feel more energized after seeing her..
Yes, you can afford to take more meat, do chew them well (I assume that your BMI is normal?..if BMI normal, ok to eat red meat like beef too). Maybe can focus on eating the warming vege on the list to balance out the meat consumption. Yes you can take chilli and warming spices like cinnammon but for chilli in particular, since you taking chinese medicince, don't take excessive and take the large ones, not the chilli padi type. Become eat a lot of chilli in particular could obstruct the efficiacy and absorption of any medicine. So for chilli padi, not so much k…focus on other warming spices on the list since you will be contining to take tcm.
Elle,
Hey, I have not tried these two before, just heard from cols, for them, when they are puzzled about movements, drink a glass of orange juice and lay down flat and the movements can come. Another way is to hold your breath (not too long of course) and observe your tummy and it actually can move (they say only in 2nd tri can use this method as the heartbeat becomes stronger). That will comfort you about well being of baby. Your baby is a smart girl, she knows that move too much will waste energy and she rather use it to grow stronger bones
Meow,
A tight hug and squeeze to you sister. What you have gone through is not easy. You are so gentle and sweet looking and yet so tough inside.. Yes, you are right, you all are very strong people, most important thing is strong inside. I got also very confident you can pull through, you and Lyn are the type that are so strong and got a giving character that even in the face of adversity, still can go around helping people. I am so lucky to have you all as friends. Jia you Meow, all these will be over soon.
Lyn
Hallow my sister
Yes indeed, actually since the day I see you all, I know you are tough cookies…yes, I can strongly sense the strong spirit in you right here, right now
Can sense your heart is flying lightly in the air now…And also you have the strength to help other sisters too. I am proud of you really
Yes, those people who think that that life is a paradise only with kids must really rethink this over-simplified belief because to me, life is paradise depending on how we make use of what is given to us by the upper forces. One of my married friends with two kids told me that at the end of the day, while she dotes a lot on her kids, she still thinks that the most important person in her life is her hubby because he will be the one to walk the journey with her till the end. I can't agree more.
Hey, I write up the info relevant to FSH and hormonal. Some terms are very medical. Its highlighting that FSH is not a statement against the number of eggs in the ovary but rather a statement of how well the hormonal forces are working together to stimulate the eggs. Meaning that working on hormonal harmony and balance can improve FSH (not the number of eggs but how well the eggs react). As today I have problem loading the win document, I shall PM (you go activate your private message function k) the whole text to you k. Lyn, I feel very happy for you that you have grown wings and in the mode of enjoying life with hubby cum ttcing but not total ttcing. You are the best