Hey May, u sound disgruntled. Let me first say that I send my 2yo to Brighton Montessori. She bit 2 kids there in her first 2 weeks. My Wife n i were afraid How The victim parents (mum Caucasian, dad chi) will react. To our amazement, they were v understanding esp when there was an obvious bite mark since the kid's v fair-skinned. What I m trying to say is biting is fairly common in not only childcare centres but anywhere there's gathering of kids. U will be amazed at how fast the kid can bite within a few seconds of u turning your head away. My point is, your post has revealed your inadequacies as a MOTHER who is what doctors term as FON (full of nonsense) patient. We can smell one the minute they walk thru the door. Why? Bec they hv ridiculous expectations n they The $ they pay = perfect experience. If u baulk at The BD for every bite, then u won't find any other CC that is different. Ur case smells Of your overproctection overbearing stink that will turn ur kid into a softie. Cry daddy, cry mummy. Your long post reveals ur inadequacies as a cheapskate mummy. Online chatter is cheap right?