irene, ask your hubby to make it up after his trip! I understand how you feel, I wouldn't feel very good about. I remember once my hubby was on this IT project that required 24x7 support. Whether it was midnight, 3am or 6am, he was getting all kinds of calls. I demanded he quit his job as I really couldn't stand it cos he simply had no time at all. Half way through breakfast or dinner, he will need to rush off to pick up the phone and then got to talk for 30 mins. In the end, he asked his boss for a transfer to another project.
Gal, I think its better to wait till they are 2 yr old to give them vitamins.
jeng, can ask your parents or in laws for help if your hubby is not around?