Hi mummies, i am new here.
> used google maps to track his timeline but location is switched off around 4-7pm and he will be home at 7.
> i have his phone password and i check everyday but i think he delete some numbers from call log , message and wechat. (example - his WeChat will be open but no new messages)
> last month, his timeline showed that he went to lavender hotel. He said he went to sleep and rest because our house don't have bed (tatami at home).
> a few times, i saw bargirls message him and i call them back to tell them to leave him alone. They said they didn't know he was married.
> his past history : social escorts, prostitutes, thai discos, everything tried before. Caught him many times.
> 10 years ago, he hold my hands together and beat me up on my head and face with a hanger and i gave up and called the pilice. The hospital, police and all the people were very nice to me because my whole face swollen and purple. My eye doctor even volunteered to provide evidence and go to court for me. The policeman was shocked that later on i said i will drop the case because I didn't want him to go to jail. The police called me a few times to make sure that he didn't threaten me to drop the case.
> since then every few months, he is violent. We fight, i cry and he flips tables. Sometimes he slaps me or throws me against the wall but he doesn't dare to hit me so many times anymore. Everything in a mess and I spend 1 hour picking up everything.
> now he said that he promise to change. We enjoy expensive holidays and food. He brings me out every week. He is very nice when he isn't angry.
> when he is angry, he is a mad man. In america, i made him angry and he walked off in the city and he left me alone. I called him for 6 hours and walk non-stop but cannot find him until i take the train and saw him at another place. I even asked the usa police to help me find him. The usa police felt sorry for me.
> he keeps saying he never go play girls. He is a businessman so he says that sometimes must go because of business deals but he swears he never do anything anymore.
> sometimes he forgets to turn off location settings so google maps show that he likes to go Bukit Pasoh, Neil Road, TNjong pagar, balestier, circular road and farrer road. All these places got bars and pubs.
> he always talks about planning for our future. He wants to grow old together. If he is serious about our future, why want to play girls?
> the first time i caught him is in 2008, a vietnam prostitute called him and i answered. Since then, I never have sex with him because i find he is dirty. I don't want to have aids or std.
> 20 years with him and mostly crying. Now I don't really cry. Just numb and forget it and pretend never see or don't know.
Sorry my message is very long.
Should i hire a PI?
I don't want to divorce (I don't need his money) but i also don't know what to do anymore.
I only hope that he will have a scare (police raid, health report) and learn his lesson.
I just want to know why he always goes to Neil Road and bukit pasoh area. Sometimes the log shows he goes there only 15-20 minutes.
Very sorry my message is very long.
