ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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<font color="ff6000">Lina,
Biasa jer cuma ada byk "govt rules" factor lah. I suruh A, dia buat B since mom suro dia buat gitu. And my prnts byk belas kasihan this and dat. Kalau gitu, bila mahu game?
Say, I expect her to wash 2 bathrooms...dia buat 1 atau langsung tidak. Alasan, puasa...sigh.
Will move back, insyllh end of e mth.</font>
Biasa jer cuma ada byk "govt rules" factor lah. I suruh A, dia buat B since mom suro dia buat gitu. And my prnts byk belas kasihan this and dat. Kalau gitu, bila mahu game?
Say, I expect her to wash 2 bathrooms...dia buat 1 atau langsung tidak. Alasan, puasa...sigh.
Will move back, insyllh end of e mth.</font>
<font color="0000ff">san
memang susah nak control klu ada 2 CEO.. maid confuse nak ikut arahan dari mana.. so she will choose the easy one lah..
klu u firm sgt and want thingy done ur way, takut ur parent tersinggung pulak..
lina, san
msn ada apa? tak faham ahh </font>
memang susah nak control klu ada 2 CEO.. maid confuse nak ikut arahan dari mana.. so she will choose the easy one lah..
klu u firm sgt and want thingy done ur way, takut ur parent tersinggung pulak..
lina, san
msn ada apa? tak faham ahh </font>
<font color="ff6000">Lina,
Tu lah...smlm hub saw e real thg. 1 family makan. The norm thg..kita smua mkn, dia jaga anak2. BUT my mom makan cepat2 trus suro dia join satu table with the rest wile mom tc of my boys. I dun mind kalau nk join 1 table IF either hub or myslf dah abis makan tapi nie terbalik. So u tgklah...kesian punya pasal.
Btw, ins naik brape tggi?
Kita semua ada had per.</font>
Tu lah...smlm hub saw e real thg. 1 family makan. The norm thg..kita smua mkn, dia jaga anak2. BUT my mom makan cepat2 trus suro dia join satu table with the rest wile mom tc of my boys. I dun mind kalau nk join 1 table IF either hub or myslf dah abis makan tapi nie terbalik. So u tgklah...kesian punya pasal.
Btw, ins naik brape tggi?
Kita semua ada had per.</font>
lynn,
apt sinie...semua tempat yg aku suke pergi...semuanya dorang blocked...
main games pon time lunch ah....
Dan,
hmmmm dorang cater for Halal tak?...
that time my friend so prihatin....
walaupon ade catering halal...tapi for his other guests....dorang tak order cik babi terbaring pat dulang...
apt sinie...semua tempat yg aku suke pergi...semuanya dorang blocked...
main games pon time lunch ah....
Dan,
hmmmm dorang cater for Halal tak?...
that time my friend so prihatin....
walaupon ade catering halal...tapi for his other guests....dorang tak order cik babi terbaring pat dulang...
<font color="0000ff">Lina
cik babi..?? kenalan baru ehh? hehehe
San
ur mom sama dgn my MIL.. sikit2 kesian, kesian..
sampai kan my maid kul 9pm dah masuk bilik tutup pintu.. bukan mengira tapi... haii susah lah nak cakap..
den if i need anything, i need to knock on her door.. </font>
cik babi..?? kenalan baru ehh? hehehe
San
ur mom sama dgn my MIL.. sikit2 kesian, kesian..
sampai kan my maid kul 9pm dah masuk bilik tutup pintu.. bukan mengira tapi... haii susah lah nak cakap..
den if i need anything, i need to knock on her door.. </font>
<font color="ff6000">lynn,
No doubt she cn do work, tc of e boys and cook but TERbiasa dgn govt rules parents I. Smlm I gi in laws plc to pass barang2 dari Bandung.
My sibs ckp, maid I tdo kul 830pm!
Kul 10pm, I kejutkan dia u noe. I susah pyh with e kids and she just sleep her own way out. Fine, itu rumah prnts I. Dun thnk puasa also dun nid to do any work. Liddat, I pon nk ckp ngan boss...I'm fasting. Can't do these work. Bole?
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No doubt she cn do work, tc of e boys and cook but TERbiasa dgn govt rules parents I. Smlm I gi in laws plc to pass barang2 dari Bandung.
My sibs ckp, maid I tdo kul 830pm!
Kul 10pm, I kejutkan dia u noe. I susah pyh with e kids and she just sleep her own way out. Fine, itu rumah prnts I. Dun thnk puasa also dun nid to do any work. Liddat, I pon nk ckp ngan boss...I'm fasting. Can't do these work. Bole?
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<font color="ff6000">Lynn,
Talk abt that. I "tahan" tau kat cni.
I've told her all my wants and what I expect from her. I duno if she noe that I'm her employer or just that she prfr mom's.
3 days ago, TERbeliak jap I nmpk seluar dlm dia kat bakul my sons. 6.15am tau!
She said, langsung dicuci nnti. I was like what!?
Even for myslf I cari baldi, dia suka-suka campur. Duno hw long it has bn dis way.
When askd mom, she duno but was feedback by dad that once in e machine, put in some detergents...it's CLEAN anyway!
Wah lau!!!</font>
Talk abt that. I "tahan" tau kat cni.
I've told her all my wants and what I expect from her. I duno if she noe that I'm her employer or just that she prfr mom's.
3 days ago, TERbeliak jap I nmpk seluar dlm dia kat bakul my sons. 6.15am tau!
She said, langsung dicuci nnti. I was like what!?
Even for myslf I cari baldi, dia suka-suka campur. Duno hw long it has bn dis way.
When askd mom, she duno but was feedback by dad that once in e machine, put in some detergents...it's CLEAN anyway!
Wah lau!!!</font>
<font color="ff6000">Dan,
Awaits for my "govt" to be activated once we're officially back home.
Nt all maid boleh tolak ansur. No matter how nice or firm, still come back to square one.
And my maid bole keje. Bukan tk boleh tapi hayal dia, kadang2 boleh buat I sakit hati. Asyik2 flip the calendars. Tak sabar nak balik gaknya.
She even told me to allow her to get at least 8hrs of sleep which Im ok PROVIDED all her job has completed. Tapi I hairan...solat isyak suka-suka bgn kul 11-12 at nite. Y cnt she just pray once dah masuk waktu Isyak?
Kan penat tdo, bgn..tdo, bgn.
Dah 2 hari angkat wudhu jer cos dia kata dia "malas" nk solat cos it's over 12am.
If she still want to b this way, ok lor...tahu, time bgn tdo a MUST to wake up on the target timings.</font>
Awaits for my "govt" to be activated once we're officially back home.
Nt all maid boleh tolak ansur. No matter how nice or firm, still come back to square one.
And my maid bole keje. Bukan tk boleh tapi hayal dia, kadang2 boleh buat I sakit hati. Asyik2 flip the calendars. Tak sabar nak balik gaknya.
She even told me to allow her to get at least 8hrs of sleep which Im ok PROVIDED all her job has completed. Tapi I hairan...solat isyak suka-suka bgn kul 11-12 at nite. Y cnt she just pray once dah masuk waktu Isyak?
Kan penat tdo, bgn..tdo, bgn.
Dah 2 hari angkat wudhu jer cos dia kata dia "malas" nk solat cos it's over 12am.
If she still want to b this way, ok lor...tahu, time bgn tdo a MUST to wake up on the target timings.</font>
<font color="ff6000">Dan,
10pm ok tau...Just nice.
My maid, 8.15-8.45pm mesti dah hit e sack!
Alasan nk tdokan my 2nd son. Kadang2 I tgk anak I masih segar pun nk tdokan...And my mom will just say, "Tkperlah..budak tu tk tdo petang pon."
And lagi best bila mom asked..
I: Nak duduk dikreta majikan kamu atau ibu?
M: Napa bu? Diberi pilihan ya?
I: Cepatan..
M: Kalau diberi pilihan, mahu duduk dgn Ibu.
My sibs feedback, I was like WTF!
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10pm ok tau...Just nice.
My maid, 8.15-8.45pm mesti dah hit e sack!
Alasan nk tdokan my 2nd son. Kadang2 I tgk anak I masih segar pun nk tdokan...And my mom will just say, "Tkperlah..budak tu tk tdo petang pon."
And lagi best bila mom asked..
I: Nak duduk dikreta majikan kamu atau ibu?
M: Napa bu? Diberi pilihan ya?
I: Cepatan..
M: Kalau diberi pilihan, mahu duduk dgn Ibu.
My sibs feedback, I was like WTF!
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YEAH YEAH SUMER DA BALIK SINI>>>!!!!
san,
asyik maid issue jer.
ade maid susah, takde maid pun susah eh.
kesian aku tgk. balik penat2 then kene layan kerenah maid.
hope u settle the 'govt' issue soon... and tactfully.
sensitive oi..!
pasal bejewelled-
pat msn pun ade eh??? aku so addicted siak.!!
hahaha.... nanti aku try msn plak ler.
hari ni, im soo sooo lazy.........
tadi pagi budak2 makan maggi.. dats how lazy i am!!
san,
asyik maid issue jer.
ade maid susah, takde maid pun susah eh.
kesian aku tgk. balik penat2 then kene layan kerenah maid.
hope u settle the 'govt' issue soon... and tactfully.
sensitive oi..!
pasal bejewelled-
pat msn pun ade eh??? aku so addicted siak.!!
hahaha.... nanti aku try msn plak ler.
hari ni, im soo sooo lazy.........
tadi pagi budak2 makan maggi.. dats how lazy i am!!
<font color="ff6000">Zu,
Everything was fine till my mom favour her lor. Cos she cn cook, tc of kids, do housechores and anxious in learning bakings.
Tak abis-abis compare the previous.
Even remind mom there's always a line tho u mentioned to her she's part of e family.
In e end, aku yg pening.</font>
Everything was fine till my mom favour her lor. Cos she cn cook, tc of kids, do housechores and anxious in learning bakings.
Tak abis-abis compare the previous.
Even remind mom there's always a line tho u mentioned to her she's part of e family.
In e end, aku yg pening.</font>
<font color="ff6000">Lina,
After 3rd communication, then we see from there. Hub say, we'll gv e last shot to see if there's any improvements. Think from e way she is, she's more fond in cooking and bakings.
Dah nasib cos we thought we get her trained at mom's plc first since school's still ongoing but it turned another way round.
Alasan byk sebab ada org backing per.
Seriously, I duno hw to "lentur" her at this stage.</font>
After 3rd communication, then we see from there. Hub say, we'll gv e last shot to see if there's any improvements. Think from e way she is, she's more fond in cooking and bakings.
Dah nasib cos we thought we get her trained at mom's plc first since school's still ongoing but it turned another way round.
Alasan byk sebab ada org backing per.
Seriously, I duno hw to "lentur" her at this stage.</font>
san
my maid tak mo sambung contract...
abt the MIO thing...hb yg subscribe lah...
i followed him...tapi i cuma choose new hp je for myself....lol..
but the bill not more than $150 - 170 a mth
@ house ph bill
@ 2 hp bill
@ broadband
@ Mio channel - sport & 1 more channel
my maid tak mo sambung contract...
abt the MIO thing...hb yg subscribe lah...
i followed him...tapi i cuma choose new hp je for myself....lol..
but the bill not more than $150 - 170 a mth
@ house ph bill
@ 2 hp bill
@ broadband
@ Mio channel - sport & 1 more channel
