Oh dear, so sorry to read of the bad experiences.
I am very blessed then, I delivered my bb girl on 23 Feb 09 at Mt Al hospital, via c-sec with epi. My wound healed really nicely.
I BF my bb less than 3 hrs after op, and had the urine catheter and drip taken off in less than 24hrs. Gynae wanted me to walk to toilet and pee naturally. Was apprehensive at first but did it anyway. Painful steps of course but I tried my best to take baby steps whenever possible throughout my stay and it became much easier over time.
by the time I was discharged and got home, I was able to move about my house a fair bit. In fact, I did most bb things yself as I don;t have a CL. Mom came over to help with housework and cooking mmainly. By the end of week 1 I was able to sneak out for Yakun toast. Still couldn;t bend down though, and getting in and out of bed (many times a day cos of TBF) was still a struggle but can be done. By week 2 I could bend. Still paranoid about coughing though. Had to cough really gently.
By now, 2 weeks and 5 days later, I can cough fairly normally, can bend down, sit on floor and get up on my own etc etc ... can do most things already. But of course I try not to carry heavy things.
My (superficial) wound healed really nicely all thanks to my gynae, whom I actually had plenty of beef with ... but turned out that he is absolutely brilliant with stitching. It is due to his stitching skills that I healed so quickly and with minimum pain.