Yup , agree with min.
But min you're more good life cause got support leh . haha !
I don't have so no choice lor . keke
Ya.. like serene i prefer baby sitter.
Ding,
Actually when child too young even with maid i don't trust as you cannot guard the maid for 24hours.
I have heard many horrible stuff about maids. Every time i think of getting a maid & do away with baby sitter e news will have bad things to say abt maids .
Haha.. so it kind of scare me.
It's like warning me better not.
You see e news about "prefect" maid knocking kid over hard object while they sleep in sarong ?
And baby knock head while bathing. Now baby mental got problem ?
Heard too many till scare lor.
Not that baby sitter got no problem .. but much lesser lor i guess.
As afterall most of them are singaporean with family here.
Maybe when she is older & can talk well then i might get maid instead of baby sitter.
(even so must watch over maid cause those smart type will abuse and warn the kid cannot say as i read from paper)
My girl is with the nanny since she is less than 3months as i was working then so no choice.
Was introduced by friend who got good feedback.
And as i slowing monitor she seems good and care for my girl so i slowing trust her lor.
Plus she got 2 young daughter (above 10) to play with my girl and help around.
Now everytime i go pick her at night she will refuse to go home and is close to the girls , playing happily .
So from these you will know she is happy there.
Not to mention she is chubby looking (cheek only mainly). It's show she is well taken care in a way.
And her nanny will tell me what she observe about my girl also.
Now that i not working i do housework (can never finish one ) haha, marketing for weekend food stuff for my girl and household stuff, go out with friends , take my girl for classes eg .....
At least now i got own time .
Last year it's like no day no night for me when i work .
Sick laggi worst.