Thanks ladies for your various inputs..
Hopeful Mom, Booy, Pooh 232, you're right, i'm losing my trust for my gynae, though the likability factor is still there, I can't imagine going forward I have to keep wondering if she's knows what she's doing.
I'm starting to recall more incidences of how she seems more than a little careless/inattentive - small things like now giving me my thyroid n papsmear test results done in 2012, did a tube x-ray couple of weeks back but up til now have not seen the results or have it explained to me, only briefly told by the nurse in some technical terms that I don;t understand, and I have since seen her 2-3 times etc. I guess all along I adopted the no news means ok attitude as well giving my full faith, before I think back and realise perhaps more care should have been given both by the gynae and myself
On charges, i've asked a few friends, they say post op emergency reviews shouldn't be charged? Hlixian - is it true, that if the doc comes to see you after the op while you are still warded is also chargeable? I thought its part of the whole package. I paid few grand and only saw my gynae for 5 seconds for before i was knocked out.
I'm not trying to count beans, just wanted to know our rights as a patient..