Talk about cost of a kid. Haiz... We have no help from grandparents hence I put her in an infant care. Drain our CDA v fast. Now in childcare the fees after subsidy is nearly $800! I drive coz I need to fetch her to the childcare which is at landed house.
Sometimes my gal make me really jumping mad I will be thinking why am I trying for another one to 气 myself later on again. Hahahaha. But me n hubby thought is she should have a sibling to fall on when we grow old la.
but the bad thing is if he fall sick and we have both exhaust our child care leave, then very stress. But so far we tried our best to juggle .. With determination, it is possible and we did it .. Thankfully so far so good. We also have a car becos it is easier to fetch and send my boy to child care and enrichment classes. I also hope my boy can have a sibling .. If he is the only one, it is too lonely one of my fren jus gave birth today .. But I'm still nowhere 
hmm in that case my PIL might be a tad skeptical but they'll still not object as they will think it's our decisions afterall...so long we don't push the child rearing responsibilities to them (many many ppl do that unfortunately..like give birth already grandparents become main caregivers caring baby for most of the time) but i don't think that will ever be a problem cos i have never thought about adoption after should we have our biological child/children...just that if got extra time and space and heart to love others unconditionally we might foster instead of adopting..yar chrisl very lucky to have open minded MIL! that's very rare... and very fortunate indeed!
but say... if TTC successful, but want a bigger family, then adopt... will they become more receptive? So it's like "proven" you can have your own children, but just a conscious choice to adopt.. also if age is catching up then might be easier to TTC 1 and adopt 2nd/3rd/etc, rather than TTC many...?
Wah IUI is so expensive!
Love that idea!! Love baking too. Kk it's late. Waking up early tmr to go to aunts place for the morning drink tea ceremony. But too tired from the drive want to rest my mind before sleepinghmm to take my mind off 2ww and not be thinking too much of symptoms i'll be making pineapple tarts hehe..baking and cooking is a form of therapy for me
hahaha... u will find a way to survive with the little one is in u. hahaha...
sometimes, some ppl will not have any symptoms at all. u juz relax and dun tink so much...
IUI is the medicine tat is super ex. or say F Gonal is ex. then plus need to do blood test for both husband n wife.
I also like baking. but quite sometime did not bake. tink have to find time to start back all my routine. hahaha.hmm to take my mind off 2ww and not be thinking too much of symptoms i'll be making pineapple tarts hehe..baking and cooking is a form of therapy for me
ya lor. my colleague wife also lor. she juz got preg. tink now in 6th wk. she say she not much feeling. juz starting appetite is better. eat more. n not much. so it depends de....Talk about preggy symptoms. My colleague only symptom was easy tired n missed menses. Nothing else. No sore boobs anything. Every one pregnancy is different.
Talk about preggy symptoms. My colleague only symptom was easy tired n missed menses. Nothing else. No sore boobs anything. Every one pregnancy is different.
hahaha, i c. who is ur gynae??
Hopes dash! I wipe brownish discharge liao
Hopes dash! I wipe brownish discharge liao
You are at CD ? Who knows is implantation bleeding.. You'll never know
Ya, count of day one of menses (CD1). As long as the AF flow hasn't start, still have hope
My implantation should take place anyday from now till Sun.
Maybe yours is implantation bleeding?
Jiayou!
Don't lose hope yet!
Went toilet just now wipe nothing again. I am wearing panty liner, the liner is stained with brown discharge.
never give up till you see red.. Hope AF stay far far awayWent toilet just now wipe nothing again. I am wearing panty liner, the liner is stained with brown discharge.
I'm also having signs of AF coming.
Cramps got bad today. And boobs are hurting but not so engorged anymore.
Having backache...
I'm also having signs of AF coming.
Cramps got bad today. And boobs are hurting but not so engorged anymore.
Having backache...
this month 3rd person to ask me already!!!!! Triple sad.... It is even more hurting to hear that when you are trying to conceive in vain. hee.. good idea... i'm doing a 2nd batch tmr too!!! in-laws finished up my first batch too quicklyhmm to take my mind off 2ww and not be thinking too much of symptoms i'll be making pineapple tarts hehe..baking and cooking is a form of therapy for me
Very hard to stay positive now leh... Haiz. I saw pink on my panty liner but wipe nothing again. Then while walking my dog just now met a neighbour who ask me if I am expecting.
Hi ladies,
Have been not active for quite awhile. I just tested and I got a light line on a cheap hpt test kit. I will test again in a few days to confirm. My AF supposed to be due tomorrow, see if it comes. My boops have been very sensitive to touch and super sore in the last few days. Praying hard that this is a sticky and normal one.
Hi ladies,
Have been not active for quite awhile. I just tested and I got a light line on a cheap hpt test kit. I will test again in a few days to confirm. My AF supposed to be due tomorrow, see if it comes. My boops have been very sensitive to touch and super sore in the last few days. Praying hard that this is a sticky and normal one.
take care!
Yeah!! Sounds positive to me tooHi ladies,
Have been not active for quite awhile. I just tested and I got a light line on a cheap hpt test kit. I will test again in a few days to confirm. My AF supposed to be due tomorrow, see if it comes. My boops have been very sensitive to touch and super sore in the last few days. Praying hard that this is a sticky and normal one.
I had sore boobs too before I got my BFP when I have my #1 too keep us updatedHi ladies,
Have been not active for quite awhile. I just tested and I got a light line on a cheap hpt test kit. I will test again in a few days to confirm. My AF supposed to be due tomorrow, see if it comes. My boops have been very sensitive to touch and super sore in the last few days. Praying hard that this is a sticky and normal one.
Woke up with a bad headache and heavy boobs( again! Dunno y subside liao come bk) put a pad last night in case AF report but nothing on the pad.
I am having cramps too. Plus that headache like knocking my head. Toturing. Each time go toilet see nothing on the pad but seems to have discharge like that. I am not testing think BFN already, waiting for menses to report anytime.
Jia you!
Headache is also an early sign of pregnancy
I have migraine problem and it will trigger nausea and vomiting when it is bad.
