spin & BFP,
firstly my mil is working, my fil need to fetch my niece from school from their home, so normally he will not be in around 10plus, then after he send her to school, back to sch, i take it as abt close to 1...then he rest, abt 5 plus, he leave hse again to go over their hse, then 6plus go n pick her from school, then bring her home, stay awhile, nw normally he will only be back abt 8plus in the evening...so all in all, can consider most of the time he is not in....then the most power my mil said, dun let my fil so workout, he only can go up awhile to look see look see for u only....if not he will be too tired....so i got no choice but to employ maid....as for my mum, she is looking after my bro kids as they are still young....