yo ecups and pinnacle, so sad to see fellow forummers quarreling with hubbs cos of stress from TTC. think all of us have been there before.. still remember when the gynae says it's hubbs SA problem, i really had doubts inside myself. even though on my face is a smile, in my heart i keep asking, if i know he is like that, will i still choose to marry him??
in the end, just make myself more and more painful and depressed. then i think about all his 'wrong' actions like wearing briefs, put laptop etc, then can't help but blame also
it is really bad to let TTC affect our relationship with hubbs...
think about it, when two of you got married, the vows are for better or for worse. in sickness and in health. this TTC problem is just one of the many tests that the marriage will undergo. but no matter what, your hubbs will be there for you.. so we must be there for them in the same way too.
i asked myself, if one day i got breast cancer, will he leave me? if the TTC problem is all my fault, will be blame me? say cos i love bubble tea and curry that's why like that? then i realised i will not be able to take it.. and i believe hubbs will never blame me for this kind of thing too.
that really wake me up from my idea. yes we must reach a compromise to maximise potential of TTC, but not at the expense of the marriage and the relationship. jiayou ok. last time i will resort to picking out hubbs boxers for him so he don't wear briefs.. haha. one day the boys will realise they have to play their part too.
bunny mummy, could it be because of not enough lubrication while bd that's why spotting today? cos i remember u said bd then got pain. monitor and if it disappears, should be fine. if not, see a doc, could be hormonal imbalance.
girls, don't be frustrated or upset k. we are all here for each other.
