Mrs Chew,
hope you are feeling better too.
yah, i guess sometimes man have different mindset. Woman once focus, is result oriented. man is different.
But if u see doc yourself etc, don't update your hb, and if he dun ask or show concern,you'll feel even more angry and pissed wor. unhealthy lei.
take me for example, HB grandma bdae yesdae.i was quite tired, and backache around 9+ and asked when home sweet home. HB told me his relative still makaning.
But i know he's staying coz gota send them back home.
i felt hurt lor..and kept quiet.massage my own back etc. he know i am angry and start sayang me, massage for me, but i turned a cold shoulder.
had a talk with him that i am secondary.though he is close to them and hope not to "sao xing" by going home early, i hope he can give me due concern lor. well, he promised next time, if i am not well, he will send me home.
well, since he's given in, i didnt hold my anger for long lah.
and surprised he initiated BD middle of the night.
E*,
Hope you are better today.
Don't ever allow that thoughts to creep in again hor. Spank spank. So dangerous thots.
How about plan for a short trip. Or take a day break, do something you like etc...will brighten your day
Kea,
agree. man always express themself differently. Guess when we are sick, they felt the best support they could render, is to take care of us, buy us makan etc...
Gillian,
yah, unplanned BD will end up usually during weekends nia.
me see how lah, havent start planning which day BD this cycle.
heheheh....DH cousins so cute de. i was wearing a doll dress yesdae, and realli looks like i am preggy. They took it for real i am, and keep teasing me, if i've thought of names for bb etc etc.....hope i can realli announce good news soon.
but luckily my mil didnt stress me lah....