(2015/01) Jan 2015 Mummies


PTB7674 said:
http://singaporemotherhood.com/forum/threads/unused-sanitary-pad-wanted-from-new-mummies.140177/ huh? got such belief :eek:
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u never heard off? I really pass a package to my colleague hahaa my sis pass hers to me. dunno true aot la hor. I did get pregnant shortly after like less than 3 mths tt kind although no viable haha

My another colleague even more pantang say if wanna get pregnant, go visit ur friend/relative who just give birth and sit on their bed and eat mee suan with egg on the 16th day after she give birth.
 
sunflower307 said:
u never heard off? I really pass a package to my colleague hahaa my sis pass hers to me. dunno true aot la hor. I did get pregnant shortly after like less than 3 mths tt kind although no viable haha

My another colleague even more pantang say if wanna get pregnant, go visit ur friend/relative who just give birth and sit on their bed and eat mee suan with egg on the 16th day after she give birth.
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serious !!! :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:
 
PTB7674 said:
serious !!! :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:
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yah! when she know my sis give birth, she reminded me to go and eat mee suan on the 16th day. haha But tt time I already pregnant haha but I din announce on fb.

a lot of myths lei.. got eat bb full month red egg also. I ate my friend's bb full month red egg and hit jackpot and this was the viable pregnancy which I am carrying now. My hub colleague also eat red egg and then both their wives got pregnant. haha

I dunno whether coincident anot coz my MC was really near to each other and I was really fertile plus we hardworking :oops: hahaha
 
PTB7674 said:
i am in the same position as you lolz ..can be end of dec .. or early of jan lolz.. though i am C sect but also must wait for Gynae to give me the go sign ...so date still unknown lolz



actually have you consider installing CCTV ..since helper going to be at home looking after baby next time
but weather still not cold enuff ... dunno about you ladies ... i feel hot easily lolz ...
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Me too! Dunno can tahan to Jan or not. 1 Jan will be my 37 wks. I got my eyes set on 2 Jan or 5 Jan.

Ya I think I need to install CCTV. But probably will do all these after I pop, since not supposed to do any drilling now. Want to install window grills also.
 
ecym said:
its been around for the longest time... i dun believe in it... but in the IVF forum, every possibility is a hope!!!
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guess when one is desperate ..whatever myth they also give it a try bah

sunflower307 said:
yah! when she know my sis give birth, she reminded me to go and eat mee suan on the 16th day. haha But tt time I already pregnant haha but I din announce on fb.

a lot of myths lei.. got eat bb full month red egg also. I ate my friend's bb full month red egg and hit jackpot and this was the viable pregnancy which I am carrying now. My hub colleague also eat red egg and then both their wives got pregnant. haha

I dunno whether coincident anot coz my MC was really near to each other and I was really fertile plus we hardworking :oops: hahaha
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i prefer to believe the hardworking pay off and not these myth lolz
 
ecym said:
its been around for the longest time... i dun believe in it... but in the IVF forum, every possibility is a hope!!!
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ya. I even pray to 注生娘娘 too.. ok.. quite extreme coz I was really eager to get pregnant.. haha actually by my 2nd mc, I really sian already.. like aiya,. whatever la.. then came my bb on the next mth.
 
sunflower307 said:
ya. I even pray to 注生娘娘 too.. ok.. quite extreme coz I was really eager to get pregnant.. haha actually by my 2nd mc, I really sian already.. like aiya,. whatever la.. then came my bb on the next mth.
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my explanation will be .. the more eager ..and stress over getting pregnant the mroe the body cannot release the hormone required to make it works...
the moment you are relax and not burden by the must get pregnant thought, the body will perform the miracle :p
 
easier to say then done..especially for those with unexplained infertility situation..
btw i'd gone through ivf, not successful..not stressed over it but would like to try all options..for those mothers-to-be, congrats to u...please do not look down or laugh about those who are trying their best :)
 
anneneo78 said:
easier to say then done..especially for those with unexplained infertility situation..
btw i'd gone through ivf, not successful..not stressed over it but would like to try all options..for those mothers-to-be, congrats to u...please do not look down or laugh about those who are trying their best :)
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I totally understand your feelings. I hope the best for you too. I tried pretty much every ways too, had 2 mcs and my current pregnancy isn't smooth sailing as well. Jia you. :)
 
sunflower307 said:
ya. I even pray to 注生娘娘 too.. ok.. quite extreme coz I was really eager to get pregnant.. haha actually by my 2nd mc, I really sian already.. like aiya,. whatever la.. then came my bb on the next mth.
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I also prayed to ZSNN! N I'm a Christian! My mum was just reminding me yesterday to return 100 red eggs when beanie turns one month old. My hubby best - he is a Catholic but he got 拜太岁！Haha. Cos l brought him to Shuang Lin 寺 once to look see look see n he suddenly asked me - "why am I on the notice board?!" Turns out they posted the picture of the 4 zodiacs that 犯太岁 that year, which included the tiger, so I explained to him that he pissed off the Grand Duke that year, n he was quite concerned, so we paid $2 for some joss sticks n paper to pray. Haha. He says it's ok, he believes in only one God, but this one is a "deity", so it's different *scratch head* Ok la, whatever helps him sleep at night, anyway, when in Rome do as the Romans do right? :p
 
anneneo78 said:
easier to say then done..especially for those with unexplained infertility situation..
btw i'd gone through ivf, not successful..not stressed over it but would like to try all options..for those mothers-to-be, congrats to u...please do not look down or laugh about those who are trying their best :)
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if you think my post is laughing at those who are trying or looking down on pple who have to resort to whatever method .. i apologise for it but the intention of my post is not to laugh or look down .....

if simple personal point of view is going to turn into negative thoughts there is nothing i can do ...
 
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bbcripps said:
I also prayed to ZSNN! N I'm a Christian! My mum was just reminding me yesterday to return 100 red eggs when beanie turns one month old. My hubby best - he is a Catholic but he got 拜太岁！Haha. Cos l brought him to Shuang Lin 寺 once to look see look see n he suddenly asked me - "why am I on the notice board?!" Turns out they posted the picture of the 4 zodiacs that 犯太岁 that year, which included the tiger, so I explained to him that he pissed off the Grand Duke that year, n he was quite concerned, so we paid $2 for some joss sticks n paper to pray. Haha. He says it's ok, he believes in only one God, but this one is a "deity", so it's different *scratch head* Ok la, whatever helps him sleep at night, anyway, when in Rome do as the Romans do right? :p
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lolz your hubby damn cute leh ... i tot man are mule if they dun believe they wont even give in at all lolz
 
anneneo78 said:
easier to say then done..especially for those with unexplained infertility situation..
btw i'd gone through ivf, not successful..not stressed over it but would like to try all options..for those mothers-to-be, congrats to u...please do not look down or laugh about those who are trying their best :)
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I can totally understand how you feel too, I have been thru more ART cycles than I can count on one hand, jia you babe, don't give up, u will succeed one day! All the best!!
 
anneneo78 said:
easier to say then done..especially for those with unexplained infertility situation..
btw i'd gone through ivf, not successful..not stressed over it but would like to try all options..for those mothers-to-be, congrats to u...please do not look down or laugh about those who are trying their best :)
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Hi please dun be mistaken. A number of us also gone thru IVF to conceive, including me..
 
anneneo78 said:
easier to say then done..especially for those with unexplained infertility situation..
btw i'd gone through ivf, not successful..not stressed over it but would like to try all options..for those mothers-to-be, congrats to u...please do not look down or laugh about those who are trying their best :)
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*pat pat* we are not laughing or looking down. Baby dust to u ya... If u can wait till jan, I'm sure I can mail u some
 
PTB7674 said:
my office haiz.. ... no cold at all though some tpple wearing jacket or sweater lolz ...


Co insurance will apply in such case .. normally the most ideal way is claim company ..then balance call own insurance cos
when you buy new insurance next time they will check how much you have claim from other insuranc (except company insurance) and work out a high premium cos you high claimance risk lolz ...
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I thought one person can only claim either company insurance or own insurance. ..
 
bbcripps said:
I also prayed to ZSNN! N I'm a Christian! My mum was just reminding me yesterday to return 100 red eggs when beanie turns one month old. My hubby best - he is a Catholic but he got 拜太岁！Haha. Cos l brought him to Shuang Lin 寺 once to look see look see n he suddenly asked me - "why am I on the notice board?!" Turns out they posted the picture of the 4 zodiacs that 犯太岁 that year, which included the tiger, so I explained to him that he pissed off the Grand Duke that year, n he was quite concerned, so we paid $2 for some joss sticks n paper to pray. Haha. He says it's ok, he believes in only one God, but this one is a "deity", so it's different *scratch head* Ok la, whatever helps him sleep at night, anyway, when in Rome do as the Romans do right? :p
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haha remember to return ur offering before cut off time. :) Ur hub really do what the romans do.. haha

I am Taoist and pray to godness of mercy. I had a altar at home and everyday I pray she keep my lil o safe. I check with my MIL, don't need return 100 red eggs so kua zhang.. .return 12 eggs enough.. haha. but the temple I pray is not those common one in the ZSNN thread. the one I went is opp bukit batok swimming pool..
 
linlin11 said:
Same i only bought less than 5 new clothes now. Than i got alot clothes being passed down but i haven sort out whether isit for infant stage anot....really very tiring nwadays.
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I also not buying much cos elder sis said bb outgrow fast den hub nag not to buy too many...wait bb bigger abit den we buy going out clothes more later on...
 
Give a hope said:
I thought one person can only claim either company insurance or own insurance. ..
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u go check the insurance wordings ...

usually there will be a clause called Co insurance

sunflower307 said:
haha remember to return ur offering before cut off time. :) Ur hub really do what the romans do.. haha

I am Taoist and pray to godness of mercy. I had a altar at home and everyday I pray she keep my lil o safe. I check with my MIL, don't need return 100 red eggs so kua zhang.. .return 12 eggs enough.. haha. but the temple I pray is not those common one in the ZSNN thread. the one I went is opp bukit batok swimming pool..
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but she is pregnant can go back and return offering meh
 
For zsnn, I nv knw abt e tradition to return red eggs. For my case, I pray to her to keep bb safe n for a smooth delivery. Do I still need to return red eggs? Must return how many?
 
momobb said:
For zsnn, I nv knw abt e tradition to return red eggs. For my case, I pray to her to keep bb safe n for a smooth delivery. Do I still need to return red eggs? Must return how many?
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I think u can return the eggs. As to how many, it's what u are comfortable with...
 
ecym said:
Agree the duck is so so nia... i hated the service, poor Grace have to endure my incessant complaints!!! hahaha
Alamak we din order a lot leh... but how much is the duck alone yar???
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I wont recommend anyone there. See the waitress black face throughout the meal....
 
PTB7674 said:
u go check the insurance wordings ...

usually there will be a clause called Co insurance



but she is pregnant can go back and return offering meh
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Hey that was the exact qn I asked my mum. Can I go back n return offering cos this year my turn to 犯太岁 n I got 拜 in Jan. My mum says can. So I plan to go this Sat, cos next good date (according to me anyhow reading the tong shu iPhone app) is 13 Dec which is abit late in case I'm on bedrest by then.
 
Give a hope said:
I thought one person can only claim either company insurance or own insurance. ..
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Nope, you can claim from both but at the end, you cannot claim more than your bill.

For example, the bill is 20k. Assume that company covers 5k. Then you claim the remainder 15k fr your pte shield insurance (and under that there is this component called co-insurance).

Another way of seeing it is, assuming your bill is 20k. Your as-charged plan (pte plan) will cover everything except the S$3.5K (Pte hospital) deductible and 10% co-insurance (10% of 16.5k). Assuming that you have no rider to cover the deductible and co-insurance, you can claim the 3.5k+1.65k from your company insurance. tho usually, you will be told to claim against company insurance first before u claim against your as-charged plan
 
bbcripps said:
Hey that was the exact qn I asked my mum. Can I go back n return offering cos this year my turn to 犯太岁 n I got 拜 in Jan. My mum says can. So I plan to go this Sat, cos next good date (according to me anyhow reading the tong shu iPhone app) is 13 Dec which is abit late in case I'm on bedrest by then.
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really ?!?! i tot pregnant woman cannot go temple leh but can ask pple to return the offering on behalf of the pregnant woman

problem now is i dun remember did i go pray at the beginning of the year ..jialat ...
 
PTB7674 said:
really ?!?! i tot pregnant woman cannot go temple leh but can ask pple to return the offering on behalf of the pregnant woman

problem now is i dun remember did i go pray at the beginning of the year ..jialat ...
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LOL u r damn cartoon la, u cannot remember if u prayed?? Lol!
 
I also pray to Erawan shrine everytime I am there... Just for general well being and such... so every time go back BKK will also have to return some prayers ...
 
anneneo78 said:
easier to say then done..especially for those with unexplained infertility situation..
btw i'd gone through ivf, not successful..not stressed over it but would like to try all options..for those mothers-to-be, congrats to u...please do not look down or laugh about those who are trying their best :)
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Actually to me not just ivf is tough journey as for my case I had 2mcs den current ones not smooth sailing kind...so much thing me n dh fighting n jiayou for rainbow bb...
 
PTB7674 said:
really ?!?! i tot pregnant woman cannot go temple leh but can ask pple to return the offering on behalf of the pregnant woman

problem now is i dun remember did i go pray at the beginning of the year ..jialat ...
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err... i think i did pray pray at loyang and erawan shrine when i was preggy leh... they din stop me leh
 
bbcripps said:
LOL u r damn cartoon la, u cannot remember if u prayed?? Lol!
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pregnancy shrink my brain sob sob ..

i checked the book .. this year i only offend the tiger god not tai shui .. hmm so even if i pray i should be praying to tiger god
and again there is a belief pregnant lady cannot go pray tiger god ...

so i am stuck..dunno wat to do
 

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