(2013) TTC for #2 & More Mummies !

twinkle: for my #1, the reason why I tested was coz of the sharp pain by the side.. =p coz cycle's super irregular and I wasn't tracking back then, so dun even know when's the 2ww etc.. =p

Ya just try ur best, dun worry too much.. sometimes, some qns are not meant to be asked.. Hahah!!! coz asked already then will have deadline, dun ask sometimes better.. heh heh.. Good Luck to Ya! =)

2ww: haha, yar, I totally agree with ya on the symptoms being imaginary etc.. coz sometimes when I concentrate on my lower ab etc, it seems like can feel pain etc, so hor.. think maybe symptoms' not too reliable.. read online tt symptoms are more reliable only if one usu dun experience tt kinda symptom, then suddenly will feel it etc.. for my case, I always get backache, bloatedness, gas etc, so tt's not too accurate for me...

Charlotte: Wah?! Ya's ovulation's so fast?? but if ya BD-ed before shld be okay ler, think sometimes hor, when tis the least expected, tis the highest chance too..haha!! so dun worry & JiaYou!! =)

Berries: Thanks thanks!! =) hehe, now ya make me feel like waiting for the 2 lines!! =) coz when I tested negative on 14 dpo and 15 dpo with no trace of even the slightest line, think the feeling's abit defeated sia.. =p
 


Berries/twinkle: dun worry, we'll get our turn when the time is come
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we should be grateful coz our hb never stress us 'bout having another children.. they are easy going type so we must relax a bit
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Thanks for all the encouragement.....but frankly speaking after 2 years of TTC, I already 'see very open'...tell my HB have means have, no means no, cannot force, we can only try our best lor
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2ww, no gynae did not say when release...just say from the scan its release already....I think properly its Sunday night cos I feel a bit cramp and
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on my opk, can only leave it to fate.

bewildered, yes my cycle is 28-29 days so usually my O is 14-15days.

Let's jis you together....I did not give up despite 2 years, all of u can do it better n faster than me!
 
Sorry ladies to interrupt again.
I have some extra Blackmores Conceive Well Gold tablets and capsules to let go.
Also have a brand new unopened box of Preseed Lubricant.
Pls PM me if u're keen?
 
charlotte, hope u can BD tonight as well ! JY !!!

today went to work... i was on mc last wed thurs and fri after my hsg .. i was feeling moody and also cramps on n off ... so took mc . hehehe.... anyway, went back work today.. then my manager ask me if im ok ... i say ya ok ... then she ask me is it i went for d&c ... -_-" i didnt tell her i went for hsg ... then she outright ask me. then i was feeling quite emo.. then i started to tear ... then she got up and wanted to touch me but i jus held up my hand... said im ok ... no worries then i left the room and went to toilet to wash my face ... hehe... just felt super emo at that time ... after that she didnt mention anything already ...

also, just sharing.. feel so sad for my sil ... she gave birth 31st... then she got CL .. so happen this CL is recommended by my friend .. today i went to visit them at home ... they were having arguement with the CL and my sil was sobbing away on the bed ... think she super emo !! she wants to bf but she says the cl is not encouraging... ask why latch more than 1 hr... then keep insist give formula to the baby ... then when my sil did massage... she asked my sil why massage no need... she can teach her how to lose weight ... then my bro told her is not to lose weight.. is for her to just relax ... then she keep passing a lot of negative comments ... according to my sil n bro ... but cn see my sil really emo big time ... then say bb cry. CL never attend to the baby.. just let bb cry n cry ... even massage lady ask my sil if thats the CL or mum or mil ... why bb cry until like that never attend to bb .... aiyo... i also feel bad ....

end up, they ask CL to leave ... CL insist she is not in the wrong ... initially i didnt wan to get involved but i also hear until i super agitated with the CL ... she keep saying things abt my SIL .. then i just shoot her .. i told her u r CL since u claim look after so many bb n mummy why u so negative.. my sil jus give birth.. after birth very emo .. you shld not pass negative comments .... very prone to post natal blues why you cant be more understanding ... then she say if they not happy shld tell me ... say my bro also never say anything to her.. she also doesnt knw what she did wrong ... then while wiping up the bb in the room, my sil sobbing on the bed, she keep on commenting n commenting .. wah i feel like slapping her .... i told her since they wan you to leave just leave ... no point staying already.... then she also quite upset la ... then insist on full pay but she only help 4 days... then my bro says no .. only pay 4 days.. then she ask for 2weeks... then i told my bro give at least 1 week la .... then the aunty ok ... so drama right ... sigh ... then my bro supposed to go back to work tmr ... end up he have to extend his leave.. then now looking for CL ... i called up a few ppl .. managed to get 1 but not sure they want or not ... they say tmr call up the hospital ask for recommendation ... sigh ...

the cl keep commenting she didnt do anything wrong ... then my sil said not u wrong is my wrong for giving birth ok ... aiyo... i hear liao also sad lor ... sigh ...
 
Good morning mummies ...

Yest kept having this stabbing/pinching pain at the right side where I O. Told my hb that I feel weird, not the usual AF kind of feeling that I normally get. Plus menses was supposed to report yest but didn't turn up. So night time, after I reached home, the first thing I went straight to the toilet to test. No more cheap test kits, so I used the expensive digital Clearblue test kit & I got a shock, it's BFP!!!!! It clearly showed as pregnant, no room for doubt but I can't believe it.

Mummies bewildered and 2ww, the pinching side is really one of the symptoms... I really got so excited that I cldn't fall asleep last night.

Spreading the bb dust to every ttc mummies..
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morning ladies!!! short short week tis week!

Cinmay : ya.. maybe.. but women are like tis.. will find tat the hn like dun care like tat.. maybe is i too senstive liao.. haha...

Charlotte : hmmm... u ttc for 2 yrs le? but all these 2 yrs u got monitor temp and test on opk dilgently ma?

blessedone : wah seh!!! the CL really sxxks to the max leh!! during confinement, the lady will be slightly emo de.. how can she give so many bad and negative remarks.. *roll eyes*
now u feeling better le ma? *hugs hug" maybe u tear and emo last week due to the hormones changes ma.. u will get ur deserve BFP de..
 
twinkle: Congrats!!!
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so happy for ya!!
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tis thread really pushed mummies for graduation in batches!!
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heh heh, actually there's really lotsa symptoms but if tis a new experience for ya,then can b counted as a symptom bah!! Congrats!!
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2ww: tis really wangness attracts wangness!!
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berries: hope tt ya'll test positive soon!!
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misy: tt cl beta fire her sia... a woman's at her most vulnerable aft childbirth n yet d cl can do tt to ur sil?! real bad of tt cl! hope tt ur bro can find someone to hlp out soon else think he'd b v stressed too..

btw,ur boss's kinda funny wor.. heh heh... but seriously,extreme mood swings' a sign too!! ;)
 
twinkle: see the dream comes true!! soooo happy for u
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now u can tell ur hb since u strike this year then must strike again next year wahahahaha..

eh congratzz!!
 
wow twinklestarworld
congrat. happy for u...
i see the gynae yest. as usual cant see bb yet.. lolx.. y does my cheapie keep having faint line, isnt it suppose to get darker??/ ><
 
Cheryl : maybe the hcg level not tat high to be detect dark lines yet.. it will increase each day de.. u test again a copu of days later.. the lines should be getting darker and darker.. dun worry so much..u r definitely preggy!! *hugs*

twinklestarworld : do come in to update us on ur progress ok? have a sticky, healthy beanie for the next 9 mths.. ^^
 
Thanks berries.. I really like coming in, to read what people post and to post in office.. Thanks mummies for hearing my grumbling..

Cheryl, thanks... oh u hv seen yr gynae. u shld be able to see the bb the next visit.. guess u had the same problem when I tested my #1. For my #1 I got the faint line at 13dpo, it is not the equivalent dark lines for both. One is lighter than the other control line. So, i thought it was not +ve, but it continued this pattern for the next 2 days, until i switched to clearblue (the one with the cross) and then digital clearblue (the one that show u preg + wks) which then confirmed my doubt..
 
Twinkle: congrats congrats.. felt soooo happy to you. Dunno why, i feel so different that someone so "close" gotten preggy! as in we have been in thread encouraging each other and suddenly you pop us such a good news! Drop by here sometimes to spread lotsa of BB dust to us k? dun worry, we wont miss you coz we will be joining you in April 2013 thread!

Bewildered: Yes here really by batches. Forgotten how many grads last batch. so this batch we have two and more tooooo gooooo!!!!

Cinmay: you are sooooo unfair.. just say bewildered/charlotte/missy, their turn next. You forgotten Anne, me and yourself!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! This batch we will have maybe 10 grads altogether. all of us + one or 2 newbies! Everyone HUAT Ah!!! hee hee
 
Cheryl: coz you are using the cheapie stick mah.. maybe you can invest in one exp one and see the thick thick line!
 
Hi everyone

I'm trying for #2 too, hope to get share experiences and support each other in this ttc-ing journey.
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Supposed to be in my 2ww now, didn't use any opk so I can't tell exactly which dpo am I in. Anyway I had 1 expired HPT left and 'wasted' it on Sun, BFN.

twinklestar: Congratulations!
 
2ww: i must queue ma.. seems that they have been ttc-ing for sooo long.. am happy to see u all graduate first coz am newbie here hehee..

oh ya still got Morebbs.. then after them is Anne/2ww/berries turns definitely!
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Hi everyone,

I'm back here
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I hope I am not forgotten here as I rarely comes inside this chat coz I'm more active in other threads

Let's all jiayou ok for our no. 2.

Me trying very hard also.

Let's hope we strike this round.
 
hi stickybubble! u r using ur expired HPT right? so it's not wasted la hahaa.. me last cycle oso using expired hpt 'n actually hor can't say if expired means really expired coz the result was indeed true enough for me which is BFN too 'n once my fren used expired hpt then gotten BFP which is for real! =D
 
Cinmay : haha.. u so cute la!

stickybubble : hi! welcome to tis thread! maybe u wait till u missed ur af then test ba.. sometimes is too early liao.. maybe cannote detect yet...

2ww : y u also nv mention me... *beat!* haha
 
Thanks for the welcome! :D

I feel wasted coz there's always this temptation to test but I dunno when is my O and hence my dpo. We bd based on my CM. Consoled myself, it's expired so not accurate, still got chance. (^__^)V
 
But i do feel giddyness still and nauseous yesterday. I had them last month too but AF still came. Even my own body wants to fake me...
 
cinmay, no leh. hehe we decided to do it only if we r going to iui... for now we try next few months... my next AF, gynae is going to take bloods and monitor my ovulation... also going to give me 150mg clomid ... he says i might be resistant to clomid since the previous time i took it and didnt seem to work for me... but hes also not sure because previous gynae didnt do bloods for me... he says by right should monitor bloods n follicle while on clomid ... not just take like that .... dont know...

cheryl, dont see lawrence ang if u are worried... he is not a gynae for reassurance ... he was my gynae for #1 but it was smooth sailing .. uneventful so hes good for that ... i saw him for ttc initially but nth happened ... asked me go ivf .. then he said nth he can do ... if you are worried, pls see another gynae ...
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charlotte, did u manage to BD last night ? today would be DPO1 ... jy !

hmmm... im still having slight bleeding n staining from my hsg... smsed my gynae.. he says just observe first ... its normal ... since i dont have pain or anything else ... hmmm ... i hope can strike this cycle ... if not next cycle ...

JY everyone !!!
 
missycandy, yes manage to BD last nite but got a feeling I am late to catch the egg already...well anyway if late then wait for next cycle lor, what choice do I have?

Good Luck n Jia You Everyone in this thread....
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Oops Berries, so sorry i missed you out. think i cock eye, din see properly. Just saw Cinmay wrote B... so i thot its you.

Welcome Stickybubble, dun think you wasted the HPT la coz its expired mah. so just buy new one, but when is your AF due? or rather how long is your cycle and how many days into the cycle are you at?

Windy: Aiyoh, where did you go? so long nvr log in and talk to us. Yes try hard and we will be rewarded!

Blessedone: i also think Dr Ang is a chop chop gynae and will help us to save $$ doc. But dun think he is a fertility doc right? Anyway, you must BD more k? the best is to do it alt days! when we put in effort, will get rewarded de.

Charlotte: Dun worry tat its too late to catch the egg la. maybe your hb troop takes ferrari, so drive v fast and manage it catch it last min!?!? you are very positive so stay positive and spread all the positive vibes to us!!!

JY JY everyone!
 
2ww: muahahaha *like* ur troop takes ferrari =D

stickybubble: our mind is the one that controlling our body.. if u think u're pregnant then the body will give out preggie symptoms =D

re: ovulation
when the egg is release 'n travel until uterus, will the egg withered/die off after they reach uterus or the egg still can be fertilized in the uterus? if the egg still alive in the uterus, means that we still got chance few days after ovulation? why seems during 2ww the troops couldn't fertilize the egg anymore? if can fertilize in the uterus den the troops no need to swim so far away until fallopian tubes ma..
 
my current gynae says not to underestimate sperm... they can survive few days inside leh .... i say maybe some cannot make it leh... he said usually can survive few days lor ...
 
2ww: Ordered, waiting for it to be delivered. My cycle is always not fixed, can be bet 30+ to 40+ days! But seems like after my mc few months ago, it has been 28-30 days cycles since. According to different iphone apps, AF could be due this week or next week. I want #2, but worried at the same time, so bd when I see CM and didn't keep track using opk religiously this time.

Cinmay: Then last month my willpower almost won the battle! So this month I will "train" harder.. :p
 
Cinmay, I like yr question on the part the egg can be fertilise at the uterus...anyone can enlighten us? so its egg waiting for the troops rather than the troops waiting for the egg???
 
LOL talking abt the sperm meets the egg reminds me the one sperm travel holding a flower got the entrance to the egg.

haha so funny.

2ww > I super like the way you describe the ferrari troops.

How I wish mine hubby's troops either a ferrari or lamborghini
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Wahhhahahh, i want my hb spermie to hold a bouquet of flower waiting for my eggie at the fallopian tube. Hope it can drive fast fast to catch her!
 
U all can go google youtube search for romantic sperm lol

That's the video I am talking abt.

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Cheers hope we all can strike earlier.
 
wrt spermies meet egg, think tis the spermies who swim up to the fallopian tube to meet them.. then once they meet,they'll have a honeymoon until the turn into a blastocyst before heading downwards together to their matrimonial home, i.e. the womb.. heh heh..

so dun think they'd b able to mit in d uterus,else there wont b cases of ectopic.. but anyone seeing their gyn soon? can hlp ask?
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oh yar,Charlotte ar,ya mentioned tt ya recently have spotting prior to af.. hw's ur spotting like? isit red,brown,pink,alot or?will stain d panty liner etc?

heh heh,sure hope tt there'll b lots more graduates!!
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article that i found:

"How can fertilization go awry?
Bad timing:
- The sperm can only survive 48 hours within the female genital tract.
- In vitro studies show the ovulated egg cannot be fertilized after 24 hours."

haizzz no wonder women must monitor very closely for their ovulation..

charlotte: if that's the case we must make the troops waiting for the egg but can't let them wait too long as well ~_~
 
Yeap, tt's why the fertilised eggy will implant elsewhere other than the uterus... Coz tis alr fertilised then travel down to uterus, instead of the eggy travelling down to the uterus alone..

Btw, think m out for this cycle ler.. -_- af reported... Will start my accupuncture and all again...
 


The egg n sperm can fertilize outside of the uterus/womb but must implant itself on the lining inside the uterus
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Hugs hugs bewildered
 

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