Blessed weekend ladies,
Gbob, it must be tough for u now, pls take good care of yourself. I understand what u r going thru, 4 yrs ago, I was also juggling work n taking care of my dad going thru end stage cancer. It is not only the physical demands of going to n fro all the doc appts n hospital stays, but also the mental strain of receiving the "sometimes ok, most times bad" blood test n scan results. Pls watch out for your own health too, eat healthy n rest more ok? {{{hug}}}
Hopeful, fwah, u singlehandedly made me crave for pandan cake for the first time in 20 yrs! Lol. I used to eat that all the time as a kid, but nowadays all u see e the fancy overpriced way-too-rich cheesecake etc at the restaurants, I have not thought of pandan cake for years! So nostalgic now haha. U must be a damn good cook, your hubby is a lucky man. Me, I can't even make maggie mee properly, always the mee either too hard or too soft. Damn jia lat.
U were still up at 3am? Oh dear, I understand how u must be feeling now, think we all go thru the same emotions, ranging fr disbelief, to denial, to anguish, to anger, to despair. But keep faith dear, we r good people, we will make great parents, have faith that God has great plans for us n we will succeed one day soon. 我们会成功的！
Shirley, think we can only drink Dom when the bleeding has completely stopped. Cos it has dang gui inside. Different TCM has different advice, my regular TCM told me to avoid strong herbs for this month (before I get my first period), n just drink black chicken soup w wolf berries. I also went to the popular BCC TCM at Marine Parade 4 days after m/c n he said to start to bu the body only 10 days after m/c. But I don't know bu with that, cos by the 10th day I'm back to work n couldn't afford the 4 hrs queue time.
Minnieluv, I'm more jia lat than u, I'm going on 35 n still trying for my first. U know my hubby n I dated for 7 yrs before we got married, so sometimes we muse that if we had been chop chop curry pok, our kid will be 8/9 yrs old by now!
