Kis - agree with u about better to be a young mother.. I'm also 30 this yr.. Married at 24, Had #1 at 27, #2 at 29 now this no.3 will be born when I'm 31. After that forcing hubby to go for vasectomy liao!! Having the 1st 2 girls at 21mths apart already very difficult, now this 3rd also going to be 21mths from the 2nd one. Peng San liao
But I think second one will be easier to push cos everything is looser and your body remembers what to do. So don't worry about the labour part yah. I find the sibling jealousy more difficult to deal with after bb is born