sigh feeling sian suddenly. we had asked both sets of parents (my mum is working, and his dad is working) for help. we even offered to get a maid, so they really only need to supervise the maid, but still, no one is willing. =(
since maternity leave is only 4 months, i feel rather sad that i have to leave my baby in infant care after 4 months. sigh, it would still be super tiny right? but asking for NPL - also afraid how that would affect my job. not about career development, but whether iw ould be first to get axed. my company not doing very well....
i was complaining to my malay colleague about the above, found out from her that she has a fantastic support from her family. everyone from her grandauntie to her sister is willing to help the minute they know someone is expecting. its a joyous thing, and no one is afraid of taking on teh responsibility to help out.
sigh, recall the latest article on yahoo news as to why malay families have more kids - probably that's why.
i know its a generalisation that malay families tend to help more than chinese families. but oh well, i can't help ranting.
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