Airy : Yes let's hear each other stories when we meet... I better prepare a notepad then can write story book... wahahah...
No la, but my personal opinion is to work on R/S with hubby 1st.. You knw la men sometimes very childish. My hb also, last time say want 2-3 kids. Now i ask him wan to try #2 give all sorts of excuse until i sian liao.
If preg then good, if not I will just let nature take its course lo. Hear his excuse sometimes I think its so lame until i want to cry....
But then again I feel that should not spoil my marraige because of wanting to try for #2.
I have a frd whose wife wanted #2 my frd did nt want cos the couple has some issues that need to be solve but somehow the wife told my friend its safe period and can do the deed. My frd did and 3 months later the wife says preg.
The poor child now is like the "thorn" of the couple.
But keep your spirits up ya, only then can the troop swim in "happily" lol...
idali : honestly, i wish to be SAHM too very badly indeed. But then I do not want to give up "luxuries" for my girl. Thus I am still con't working.
My hb has told me to work P/T so I can have more time with my girl... but my plans is work hard now then when she is of schooling age, I may quit and take care of her full-time, then can supervise her schooldwork...
Thats what i plan for now....