Hazel, totally agreed with you that HB support and company is very impt and i believe all mummies would defintely hope their HBs to be ard during the BIG day.
Today is another sucking day for me coz once again is issues with MIL and SILs. Sigh.....
My hb's elder sis's bb is celebrating her man yue on 29 Jan and i oredi told my Hb since last week that i wub ne attending. If wan, he attend himself which he will be doing. I noe by not attending, MIL and other 2 SILs will sure grumble to my HB and start to influence him. Today, he asked me again if i confirm nt gg i damn pissed told him, yes, confirm nt gg coz i oredi in4 my reason for avoiding. Guess what he say, he told me he tot i will change my mind and acc him go. I told him i oredi said no and y wld i change my mind. I told him if he wanna be pissed with me for not pleasing his mum and 3 sisters, so be it coz my proprity is still my gal.
Aft that then i realised, 29 Jan is the date i suppose to go for WBB's 1st lesson. I ever told hb the date but i doubt he'll rem. N if i nw go tell him, that day will need to go WBB's class, i tink he will not attend with me coz he oredi told his sis n mum he be gg for the man yue.
In fact, i scare to remind him that he need to go class with me coz i know sure quarrel when he gg to tell me to go on own since. he need to attend the man yue. Really dun noe wt to do nw.
To MIL and his 3 sisters, their biz is always impt as compared to mine and do u noe his 2nd sis even order him to reschedule all his stuff on 29 Jan if he has anything on. For goodness sake lor, bb man yue is not her biz but she wld go ard ordering ppl to change their appt date to suit coz all need to be present for gathering purpose as well. Only thier hse need gathering, for mine hse gathering, his sis wld also wan him to change as and well to suit their children timing. So end up, my side gathering always last min change and i noe that upset my mum alot. Try to reason with him, end up quarrel. So in the end, i give up.
My renuion dinner also changed becoz of his side. fr the ususal dinner to lunch nw coz dinner gotta reserve for his family. N this yr, becoz his 3rd sis family couldnt borrow a car, we would purposely need to travel fr my mum place aft lunch to go pick his sis, hus and kid to resturant for dinner. WTS is this right ? They are rich and yet stingy to go take cab or rent car but order my hb to go pick them. N becozo of this, hrs spend at my hse gotta cut sicne gotta chaueffer them.
Really very angry and upset.... Sori for the long thread. Trying tolet go some steam.
oh, u didnt get any photos fr them.. I quickly asks fr them as want to keep in a album.. Nvm, u can request fr doc Loh when see him next time.. Btw hor, u oso pay as a package for oscar n detail scan huh? Now i wonder will doc Loh want us do detail scan as he didnt bring up n we decide ourselves..;p as one of my friend say she doing her detail scan at his gynea place.. Oops... Oh ya, did u tell the sonographer tt u did ivf? As we hv to answer few more questions to finalise the result..did u apply for the fbi card?
