I want to speak up for the moderator of the FB group. Honestly speaking, there's been quite a number of people with their 1st post, saying they want to be added to the FB group, but I hardly see them posting here after their 1st post. Anyone can just register a nick on SMH, so how do people know if people just want to get into the FB group where mummies post quite a bit of personal stuff to find out things abt rest of us, esp if the person doesn't participate in the chattings, activities, etc. If that's the purpose, then why ask to be added in the first place? If anyone finds it ridiculous, the person is always free to leave the group. Also, is posting a few times with a month period too much to ask for?
I read other 2012 mummy grps as well, which they also hv their own FB groups, and some they state upfront "Only mummies with active posting on forum would be added to the FB group", I supposed the person is also safeguarding the interest & privacy of other mummies.
I remembered that when I first joined this chat thread, I asked to join the FB grp, which the mod has difficulty adding me due to my FB settings, so I've changed it & I was subsequently being added. The mod did say that she's having difficulties adding people since the person's email addr cannot be found in FB. If the mummy who posted just 1 time to be added to the FB grp & don't visit this thread anymore, of course, the mummy wld not hv seen the post made by her, so it's also not her fault if mummies are not added successfully.