jamie
my MIL lives with us - she looks after #1, cooks M-F and does all the housework for us. #1 already goes to pre-N, so she is out of the house 3h every day. we are already starting to plan for next year. like putting #1 on school, hiring part-time maid, maybe do tingkat 1-2x a week. if we really need to, will hire a live-in maid, but that is our last resort. it will be a big change, but i think we will manage, cos i got good support from MIL. Would not be able to do it without her. And hubby is hands-on too, which helps.