(2011) TTC 2011 Mums!!!


Jacy (preciousept), do u knw what is the opening hours for temple at Balestier and Sims Drive?

today is my DPO12, tested using a 10 miu hpt tis morning, very disappointed cos it’s nothing on the test line :-( Is it too early?

 
MdmKhoo,



I dunno if i am in short protocol / long protocol..

I will be in DC18 this Friday..



to use the gov grant, must be subsidised patient? or private also can?

 
Emilybaby,



i am not very sure..

should be like 8am-5pm? i usually go to both between 10am-5pm..



Yes, might be too early.. maybe can test again in a few days..

some ppl can detect early.. but some need a few more days past AF due date..

 
Jacy > so did they state which day u be starting ur jab? if CD18 u most likely is long protocol meaning u be going jab on CD21 for one month the most... the whole process lasted 2 month or more I am short protocol as i jab on CD02 the process is one month.



Gov grant is only can use in KKIVF... Gov hosp... but... only can put max two embyros... if no gov grant is max 3 embyros...

 
MdmKhoo,



I dunno anything la.. let me go ask on Friday then update you all k.. feel so lost now..



are you a pte/sub patient? did you choose your doctor? or allocated to you? i am now thinking if i should get a referal letter from polyclinic..

 
wishstar> nope i no kid yet... been trying for two years...



yup... u get a letter from polyclinic and tell them u want to check for fertility issue and they will give a referal letter to u...



Jacy > i am a sub... but in KKIVF u are paying pte rate... after ivf if BFP u will go back sub rate in clinic D... if not u choose doc u must be a pte...

 
Mdm Khoo + Jacy - May I know your age group? I'm in my early 30s but tried for 6 months, no news. Decided to check...



Read an article that my age group getting pregnant is only 10% in any particular month. Then I went FB and saw many of my old schoolmates, now all proud parents.



Feel quite dejected.

 
Wishstar,

have been ttc for almost 1.5 years liao.. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/sad.gif]



MdmKhoo,

Sure.. will update after my appointment!



Pommes,

dh and i both mid 20s

 
Jacy - at least age is still on your side. still got good chance.



Will wait for your update. We plan to go polyclinic this Sat. Dunno when, then we will get to see the doc.

 
pommes > both me and DH in our late 20s... [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]



Jacy > okie...



wishstar > need to consider before going ivf... there is no going back... so need serious consideration... if u not ready dun embark on the journey...

 
wishstar > dun angry... need to sit down n tok over it... me and DH tok over it way way before marry as we already long found out i cant have BB on our own... we went for tons of option and end up with ivf hope is out last...

 
wishstar - my hubby now then willing to do something for us. Before we got married, I voiced out about getting a pre-natal check, to make sure we are clinical normal and healthy.



He refused. Then nvm, now we tried for 6 months, no news. He realised it's not so simple.



Mdm Khoo - I admire your courage. This IVF route is not an easy journey. I wish you all the best and you will receive good good news soon!

 
guys are like that then want natural... they can accept the facts... that is y me try 2 years going tcm... checkup... we spend tons of $ to try natural until one day i bring him to my appt then he find that what i have been telling him are true coz the doc said i need assistant in preggy...



pommes > thanks dear... [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif] i also hope can come here and spread good news to u all...

 
i think it's man's ego thing?



I went to TCM during lunch.. my second visit to him and told him me seeking East-West medical help liao... towards the end, i asked the doc what should men take to boost their troops.. hee.. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif] (cheeky me) then DH quickly say he's still very strong... Think he's worried for his image bah... but what's wrong asking mah..

A few times, I also popped the question whether he should go for checks as well.. instead of stressing me alone loh. but he say since I have irregular menses, should "see" me first.. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/sad.gif] I can tell he is reluctant to be checked.



My mum went thru IVF for my sis before... she looked in such pain last time.. or maybe the technology has improved... Jia You Mdm Khoo!! admire ur courage wor...

 
Wishstar,

it has always been my dream to be a young mother.. dont like big age gap between child and me.. i think the smaller the gap.. the easier to communicate..

thus, to me.. i already very late liao.. have friend whose kids 2 years liao.. envy lo..

 
Pommes,

me and hubby didnt even thought of going thru pre-natal check.. cos both our parents have so many kids.. he have 3 sibls while i have 4!!



but.. hai.. also dunno why we like that..

 
Thanks for the encouragement given. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]



Will jia you this month. But not so enuth liao...

Maybe in 10 days then I will feel cheeky again...

kekeke....



Mdm Khoo, take good care of urself in the meantime as now it's the critical period right?

 
[IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/kao_babydust.gif]*dance around in babydust**catch it catch it catch it!* [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/kao_babydust.gif]



another day passed! another night of bd-ing!! jia you!!! :p

 
hi gals~ I just got back from work~ sianz that i cant log in during the day to chat. miss out on a lot.



anyone seening dr tan siew buoy from thong chai? her timing is not very good leh and the Q is v scary. if i wan a bunny baby, when is the cut off time, must get preggy by next march right?



This is the TCM sinseh Dr Tan Kian Sing - How much is the consultation per time for couple? Medicine is boil type or powder form? How frequent does he sees his patient? Like we need to go once a week or once 2 weeks? How much does the medicine cost?



Also acupuncture, anyone tried and how much?



Everyone Jia You and Baby Dust~~

 
babies > went to thong chai for two years le no use for me coz if u really want embark on TCM need years... then got result... some of my friend went TCM for 8 years then got BBs... if u not urgent can try TCM to "tiao li" but if u want fast u need western n TCM together...

 
Mdmkhoo, my fren 7yrs later den tio ley...i very scare...haiz duno when's my turn..



*pray hard*



ya JJJ, let's all be July11 mummies!!! Jia You! Jia You!

 
wishstar> ya some try for beri long then tio then stop at one... coz they are happy as the bb is consider miracle... u jia you ok... i pray for u... [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]

 
diana> wah thong chai so long. dr tan also told me that tcm will b very long. so we can try western n tcm at same time? drink the herbal ch. medicine and eat western pills shld be ok hor? I cant wait so long else I be 40s liao!! Argh~



dr zou seems too far. think better stick to 1 TCM doc better? or can just c dr zou for acupuncture only?



just changed my nick~ hahaha.



ivf whole process takes how long? then need to take MC? how long? then what do u ladies tell yr co?

 
wow today thread is moving so fast!!!!! Need sometime to read...

Yeah todday CD 13 see a darker line ha ha ha is time to work tonight!



JJJ_Mummy> Jia You Jia You... I think all the gals here can understand how u feel...



Jacy> At first i also plan for gender but end up anything also can... Just hope to have a healthy baby....



MdmKhoo> Jia you Jia you... hope to hear good news from you soon..



babies> without TMC help my BBT chart is messy... ha ha ha ... my thermometer also no backlight, so i use hp light to see.. lolx



BTW i also chart on paper every morning... the table u see is just to show u gals my chart with the help of TMC & without... and i think the no.s of hrs we sleep the and take got diff also..



ProblemG> Hi 5 we using the same thermometer !



babysee> I use to eat blackmores in Jan/Feb 2010 then i got pregent! but after my D&C i kind of thinking izzit because of that! but i know if not la, just want to find a reason for myself.. btw i got it at watson...



i also very paiseh to stay too long at pharmacy cos all the auntie there will ask u buy this and that...



joelle> i guess if u are 28-19 days cycle you might be O-ing soon... u want try use OPK to check... i think is better...



emilybaby> i when at 7.30am is open lioa... btw is too early to test....



Gals on IVF, Cheer! i pei fu your.. hope i don have to choose this...



*Tips: alot ppl say b4 BD must drink kopi, kind of making the soldier wake up! (Ops they say this is high chance for baby boy)





Have fun tonight gals.. babydust to all of us!

 
any tuition teacher here? (saw news that ex-teacher quit job and become p/t tutor and now earning much more n less working hrs/ stress).

 
baby > u can stick to one TCM u like... that is near u hse coz dun stress if long journey... can combine but sometime western medi cant mixed with TCM herb so better take accu and western medi best not take TCM herb... accu can le...



ivf take one - two month... u will get 14 days - 17 days Hospital leave to rest at home... until u tested... +ve / -ve...



one month (short protocol)is starting from CD02... two month (long protocol) is from CD21.... depend on doc...



Summer > thx thx dear [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]

 
diana> hmm.. whats the reason for saying "need to consider before going ivf... there is no going back... so need serious consideration... if u not ready dun embark on the journey..."



i did consider because i dont think i hv time to wait.. tried for 3 years n we're already mid 30s still trying for #1.



my gynae asked me to try clomid first. if really cant work, i think i try ivf, at least faster an see results and hopefully strike twins (hehee..) I think the process sounds v painful.

 
Morning ladies.



I have a silly qn to ask. If we BD yest past midnight, do we take it as 29sep or 30 sep?



Yesterday went to c doc cos not feeling v well n he prescribed mi with some medicine which 1 is not to be taken during pregnancy. Just wondering if it'dls safe to take though

now I'm only TTC. Any advice?

 
morning ladies! [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]

was on leave yest to look after my #1. totally no time to log on!



gwen,

u din tell the GP tat u currently ttc-ing? the GP could ve given u alternative medicine (those okay to take when preggy).

if its me i will try to play safe if can la, cos in case really preggy this cycle, surely will worry over this n tat.

 
Good morning ladies..



Why so many people so scared of ivf huh? is it a painful process mentally or physically or financially or what? I havent heard anything bad yet.. please tell me so that i can be mentally prepared..



anyway, i just watch the movie 'BACK UP PLAN' last night.. use frozen sperm and got preggy with twins at 1st try!!! I also wanna be preggy!!

 
Good morning ladies,



many posts overnight.



My AF finally comes... hais



Yesterday me n hubby talked about the issue if we can't conceive naturally and need help eg the IVF route, we will give up.



babycome2me - i am considering to give up my full time job and do free lance jobs. Find that my current job is too stressful, not only it affects my cycle, also my mood and health.



Jacy - my impression of IVF is very painful and very heartbreaking. Becos I have a close friend that went through the process and not successful in the end. Now, they have resigned to their fate and just enjoy the time together. They go holiday frequently and have many god-children.

 



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