Ash,thanks...yest i ask my mum if she feels i nid to chg pacy for her.but mum says B doesnt like pacy at all..lol..so let it b 1st & yest she behaved slightly better...kekeke not so much fussing during milk time...lol
Viman, i tried b4..but she fuss big time with bottle during last feed at 9pm b4 bedtime. I tested it a couple of times & once i switch to latch she drinks real hard & fast...omg!!
& usually tts d only 1 long latch i can do when i come home. She used to not waking more than twice at nite de leh...duno wat happen lately these 2-3wks...hai..
Arisz, u r not coward!! somehw i admire ur courage to extend ur lv & enjoy more time w ur boys...kekekeke cos during birth & confinement, i face bb like 24hrs..i feel so tired & jus wanna getaway hv some free time outside alone, tts y i choose to return to work early & clear ML slowly...hehe...
Deon... =) u r not alone feeling tired..i oso feel v tired even i only work 4days a week..i guess is the no slp thru at nite & coping w a job & taking care of bb when we r home ba...hehe
starfruit, r u better today? speedy recovery to u ya...hmm..im not sure if she is not taking enuff feed during d day...i try to latch her at 7+ am but she alwas likes to play & drink abit only.not those hungry concentrating drinking. my mum wil feed her bottle at 10+ 11 (100ml), after bathe at 1+ 2 (150ml) then ard 6+ 7 (150ml) then i latch her longer at 8+ 9 b4 bedtime. she used to take only 130ml in d afternoons but nw increase to 150ml. mum says B alwas dun seel to wanna drink or feels hungry...but when i carry & look at B i feel she is putting on wgt fast!!! so does tt stil conclude she dun drink enuff during d day ah? cos she has been on this schedule for 2mths le..b4 tt was really working fine...i somehw alwas feel mayb she jus wanna latch for comfort.hahahaha
Jenny, is gd to bring bb to ur mum hse often. Agree with starfruit, u shld really bring ur bb out more often.my B goes out v often & when we r out, she likes to watch those moving ppl,cars,everything.& i use sling. i hvn bought my pram yet..hehehe...so far so gd lah..but sometimes i do get aches on shoulders.when we r out,i noticed bb will yawn when is their nap time. when u pouch bb close to u,u jus pat bb backside afterawhile bb wil doze off de...some bb might fuss big time b4 they slp, mine oso..but i feel after a few times,they wil get used to it..i oso dun go out for too long.jus a couple of hours..so at most bb jus skip 1 nap time period & nite wise, same as starfruit, i wil either be back latest 8+ to prepare her for bedtime. Another way mayb u can sling ur bb at home, & let ur bb used to slinging him & let him nap in ur sling..after a few try mayb bb wil slp in it...i oso heard from a fren she let bb trial in stroller to nap at home, or push stroller in d hse to let bb used to it..
I think u really need to communicate w ur hb well ba..for eg if he oso agrees on spitting out food from mil or his mouth b4 feeding bb?is a no no.u hv to talk to him nicely to let him understand instead of jus scolding him & telling him u dun agree..make him c d pic as in is really not hygiene to do it...& try to find some couple time ba.it will help improve communications too..
As for babies starting to recognise pple (ren4 ren2) & familiar voices, i think mine started when she was somewer 2+3mths old. when i went to aunty hse,she really fuss big time.cry vvv long..once myself or my mum carry her she stopped. when my aunties wanna carry her or talk to her..oh my!! B started again...we took many trials b4 she got used to it...