oh fungfung, seems like u hv a very good MIL whom supports you in b/f... that helps alot.
Now I duno wat my bb wants, haiz. Bottle feed dun want, bf also dun want. I didn't go out for 2 days, just to 'standby' for her. Yday aftrn, even I offered to bf her, she also cried very fiercely, for 1/2 hr at least... Aiyoh, headache la. Juz now also, this morning whilst expressing, my helper told me she seems to be wanting to drink alr(we now try not to wait for her to wail for milk, else she'd cry n cry and not drink, like 'sua pi qi' like that), so I stopped pumping and bf her. Thereafter, I continued with pumping.
It seems like whether I'm home to bf her or not doesn't realy make a difference anymore, so am not gg to torture myself to stay home just to standby to feed her. Only thing is gonna ask helper to watch out closely(in fact she told me so, try not to wait for her to cry else she wont' wanna drink liao) and then see how. Perhaps it's a phase some babies go through and I noticed it's ard this age 2mths+ that feeding problem starts to differ abit. Maybe it's cos their vision is getting clearer and they're starting to be more alert about surroundings...
Let's hope babies whom hv alittle trouble with feeding will overcome this issue very soon!