thanks mummies for the advise.. maybe i really think too much ba! spoke to hubby and yes, we will use up cda first before using cash. also broke the news to my mil that we will send J in after chinese new year. quoted the example where end year not many students around, got alot of viruses etc. haha.. and also, want her to be in nearer to 2 years old .
i think it is probably time for me to doll up J's bedroom, get a new bed for her and start training her to sleep in her own room. realised J is a little slow in this aspect. still unable to sleep on her own. i tried , but her tossing n turning make it so diff. and also, now we are preventing her to put thumb and soothe to sleep, so i guess once we manage to kick off this habit, next up will be sleeping in her own room.
i guessed i really learnt alot from J.. and when i have #2, definitely no patting, no carrying for bed and no sucking thumb! it is so difficult to wean her off her thumb! to the extend we have to use ginger, apply tiny bit of ruyiyou to prevent her from putting thumb into her mouth.
i realised that when mil coordinate with me, it is easier to change J's habit. like now, after almost 2 weeks, she has finally managed to stand and let us bath. still got the shocked expression when water flows down, but no longer wailing and crying! yeah! currently on project wean-off.. that is to kick off the habit of sucking thumb.she hardly does it while with us but not sure when she is at mil place. so, everyday i will have to remind mil, and ask if J got suck thumb not. heehee.. it is a little sad to see her like a cold turkey esp during bedtime cos unable to suck thumb, but is for her long term good! she suck her little thumb until got some red blot spots at the tip liao. so yes, i must remain determined to kick off this habit!
