abt bb sleeping, bb Chloe also like that, when time's is up for her sleep (ard 9pm plus) she will fuss, so I will feed her, let her drift off to lala lah herself. So far so good and yes! sometimes she wakes up ard 3plus to play, eyes big big but we just ignore her or bring her to sleep between us, after a while, she self soothes and sleeps again!
Allets, Chloe is also small size, abt 6.7kg. I think as long as they seem ok, growing well, not need to worry ba! If Janelle can take si shen powder, then go ahead, but guess no need to force her. As long as they drink their fair share of milk, they should get all the nutrients needed right? Let's not worry too much!
pooh bear, it;s natural for MIL to 'complain' but as long as you & your hb communicate, can liao! as long as he knows your intentions and reasons, hack care MIL or even mother lah! sometimes very hard to please all of them, as long as you stay close to your loved ones, can liao!