2Ks: ya lo.. my didi also.. prefers head out n don like to b confined.. surprisingly, he can slp in stroller quite ok compared to Jav.. but i cant always bring stroller out too cos my lift is nt done, i gotta carry dwn a flight of stairs plus sometime jus go nearby too mafan for stroller.. so im thinking of a way out, but i still let him use pupsik till nw thou he doesnt like.. no choice..
Annie: same lo! i also out his head out ALWAYS.. if i put his head inside he'll start squirming n gek until the face red n start screaming or crying.. sigh! i also cannot sit too long w him in it, he'll do the same as yr lil Jav.. headache man.. but i still use it la, if nt like waste my $..=S
Angelina: i wake up arnd 7.30 for the past 2 weeks cos Jav nvr go sch.. den will pump, sometimes half way either one cries i gotta make milk/feed first..den cont pumping.. aft tt i'll wash n cook.. so lunch will be ready by 11.30am n i can let Jav haf his lunch.. n normally i bathe both in the morning aft i cookmaybe arnd 9 plus? n Jav will watch his sesame st while i get busy with other stuffs like hsework n all.. time passes real quickly, n soon i'll needa pump again n den Jav can go nap.. when he wakes, he'll play toys, read books, puzzles, drawing, iphone or asks for sesame st again..
it is really a LONG day w both at hm.. thou time seems to pass without noticing, but u'll feel like u losing yr sanity at times..
i totally und wad u said.. i din wan to send Jav to CC in first plc too.. cos i felt he will feel tt i don love him anymore cos i got didi.. but i kept telling myself, its for his good.. for him to learn things for him to b independent for him to pick up words n start talking so i can communicate better w him.. n at the same time, for me to miss HIM more n for him to miss ME more.. n i haf exactly the same thinking as u too, like y did i choose to give birth so early when Jav is not even 2.. n now im neglecting him becos of didi..its like so unfair to Jav cos he gotta share our love w didi now..
BUT aft sitting dwn, talked to my hb.. i realised, Jav will not share our love.. but will EARN another portion of love frm didi..n aft sending him to CC, everytime i pick him, he'll smile so widely, start dancing n hug n kiss me.. i feel so loved by him.. its sth i might nt b able to get if he spends every moment w me at hm.. think he also got bored seeing me.. but tt hes in CC, e moment he sees me he feels so happy like he missed me.. as much as i missed him.. n aft sending him dere, i realised i haf even more patience w him den b4, i will reason n tok to him nicely which in the past i'll jus flare at him.. n recently, i hear him speaking more words, thou not v proper but he tries to imitate wad we said n theres a certain similarity in the words..
CC is really a good option.. jus half a day.. its enuf for u to keep yr sanity, spend some quality time w jus Jordan n rest abit.. n when Josh returns, u'll feel like u missed him so much tt u'll spend even more quality time w him.. =))
hope it helps w my own personal tots.. sorry for the long one!
