jaime: my #1 sleep in his own room, own cot from the day he was discharge from hospital. 1st mth still ok cos the CL sleeps with him ma, so we didn used the baby monitor at all. subsequent 2nd mth, we use the baby monitor. i make it a practice not to pat/rock him to sleep...the only thingy i gave in was pacifier...
then i trained him to sleep thru in the nite during the 2nd month...i dreamfeed him, so about 2 mths plus, he never wake up in the middle of the nite...only when he was teething during the 4-5 mths, he wake up and in order not to make it a habit, i never feed him with milk in the nite still...just stuff with tutu..
erm...i am a lazy mummy, i never wake up in the nite to pump...i always miss my pump...and the 1st mth CL gave FM, anyway BM not enough yet, so i supplement with FM for the middle nite feed...
nevertheless, my supply still ok, i managed to change to TBF in the 2nd month...so i only used one big tin of FM for 14 mths..
i hope to do it this way too for the 2nd one..cos my #1 is really a easy baby...can sleep anyway, anywhere...
but headache for me too...cos if i place them 2 together in one room, it will most likely affect the elder one...so we still thinking how...