i'm so pissed with all the traditional thinking. My MIL show me a cup, those keep warm cup and she started to say it's very good to use during my onfinement month bcos can keep hot, so i told her i can't take over/too hot drink, keep hot also no use, then she started to say it's very good and tell me how's her confinement period last time, no shower for 1 month, not going out, no FAN!!!, only come out eat then go back to room like bride. My hubby started to say, can on air con nowaday, then she kept on saying not good blah blah blah...then i told her that her confinement period is about 40 year ago, that time weather is not so hot. then i also told her hygience is more important, nowaday baby will also reject smelly mommy. Then she started to say it's for our own good, now won't know, when we grow old then we will taste the bitter. I feel like asking her since her confinement period is so super traditional, why she can still get *feng shi*, leg pain, can't walk for long...etc
Then hubby also KNS, ask me to ignore MIL, even say no need to eat confinement foods, just eat normal. He say since I dun believe traditional thingy,y eat. so sad!!
Can someone tell me what is the temperature 40 years ago? How can they compare like that.
End up shed tears in the room :-(
Sorry...Just feel like vent out my anger.