haloo! finally i on my pc awhile after a v heavy lunch. come in to update a bit.
yugal, gotta monitor already ya since is 3 rounds of pain, so its preparing le [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
thank u, yuening, Debbie i will jiayou! [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif] i will go check the link online. thank u!
thanks klitz. and ya, my hb is a v deep sleeper!! baby was crying so loud while i was trying to latch, sitting besides him, he can still keep on snoring! gosh!
and i wanna complain abit. the day i discharge, mil says she wanna bring those confinement foods over. and she says she will cook lunch over for me since i checked out before 12. it was maddness. she came to cook instead and as its her 2nd time in our house, she called and asked hb for every single thing she needs in the kitchen and now i knw why do elderly see us in THEIR KITCHEN, they will keep nagging at us. cos its different styles! nvm abt it, but the thing is, she made a whole mess of my kitchen. she scoop out the longan drink in a rough manner from the pot to the cup and drip all over the counter top, cupboard and floor. i jus stand there looking and she walked off after tat. i told hb to clear it as its sweet and so sticky! then after, she pressed our hot water and caused it jam which ended up water flow nonstop all over. gosh! i rem sharon says abt mil and kitchen matters too? if is me, i wont step into mil's kitchen either cos its her place ma, she sure nag to do things HER WAY if she sees me cook. so best is dont cross each other kitchen.
then, she carries baby, say baby open mouth for wat, say baby kpo looking ard etc. wahh... makes me boils can!! so wat if is her grandchild, baby is mine leh. so angry lor! and bcos hb went for appt, i got no chance to ask him to stop her.
and next is, when im doing breastfeed, i did thought of locking my door, but feel tat it shld be okay and trust she wont come in as she alrdy knw im breastfeeding. but who knows, she really jus came in without knocking nor warning! SUPER ANGRY to the max! the qn she asked was "not done yet ah?" when its only 15mins leh! ARGH!
at night, i told hb abt it, its less than half a day she's at our place, i already cannot take it. pls tell her not to come anymore. we already stay sooooo far away from her is bcos i dont want to be near her (she's at CCK, while my place at Bedok) is to avoid those horror things i always hear abt mil goes to the son's house as and when. lucky, i managed to psycho hb to buy house at bedok, near my parents instead when he had made appt to view houses at around cck when we were buying house.
best is, hb jus tell me DAY 12, she's gonna come again. i stare at him and asked FOR WAT> and he assured me tat he will be around to stop watever she's doing tat will make me unhappy and he already tell her off for saying baby and enter the room while bf.
i think prob she thinks im okay with it when i asked my female friend to come into my ward while i breastfeed and she was waiting outside. i'm comfortable with whoever i choose and definitely not her!
sorry for the long post