Naf, sometimes it really doesnt matter how many kids you have, cos all kids are different.. so we have to a open mind hearing what other mother suggest sometimes. hehe!! ya, perhaps your hubby is overwhelmed with work, he didnt express his concern to meimei.. well, that happens to my man all the time. he even forgotten our 2nd year anniversary last week. and it took me awhile to think whether to get pissed with him, cos he forgot becos of work. hmm~
diana, you reminded me the japanese show that cast on tuesday. they stop bb from crying by showing the bb crying(makin fuss) by flippin the videocamera towards themselves. within secounds, the bb stop crying instead, start smiling. hahaha!! Another way i do to stop my girl from crying is, blow her face. mauhaha!!