SunFl@wer
There is something very wrong with my mil's brain. I don't know if there is anything in her head anymore. She basically has lost the ability to listen and to think right. I have stopped asking myself "why she does this, or that? Why she didnt think of this or that?" Cos you never get an answer. She can brag to all her friends how her grandson can roll over every day for the past two weeks. When her grandson roll off the sofa, she claim that she didn't know he can roll and it is purely an accident. Can anyone here give me an answer why she can even say this? So I have to blame my son for his own fall right?
Actually I didn't even blame her. I just kept quiet and call the PD to see if I need to bring him for a check up, she is the one who call everyone to "report" that it is "NOT" her neglience and her son (my hubby) is going to scold her.
My husband told her to rest more at home since she is tired. But she says she miss her grandson and insist she is not tired, on the other hand, complain to her other son, she is so busy helping us. So my bro-in-law thought that we are overworking his mother and we should take on the parents role instead of getting his mum to do EVERYTHING. What load of rubbish I have to tolerate. Her evil mouth has caused so much trouble and she makes everyone thinks she is an angel and how she can sacrifice for the grandson. The fact is we don't need her to be here. I once subtlely told her that my fil and bro-in-law and his wife not happy to see her at my place so long hours. You know what she did? She scolded me and said I shouted at her and kicked her out of the house. And she went to tell everyone about it. Lucky thing is my hubby was with me when I spoke to her. So my husband is on my side. Anyway, I still think she is mental. She always act like a helpful angel to everyone. She probably didn't mean to cause all the conflict but she is not thinking lor. The things she said has caused so much problem and she still think there is nothing wrong.
My mum is so scared of her that she came only a few hours and quickly go home. My mum wont dare to take up the "job" cause my mil will be very jealous. If my mil knows we even discuss this, she will definitely say "Dont bother your mum, i can do it, I got nothing to do, I'm very bored". Behind us, she will say we make her work. I'm stress becos if i let her continue to do what she is doing, everyone talks bad about us being irresponsible etc etc, if i don't, she will scold us. One word fan2. Cos nothing we do will please my mil.