SweetKiss: Endure for a little while more and it will be over before you know it.
I can understand your dilema. But then your mum also so discouraging. So if I were you, maybe I would move back. At least can see my own hubby and take care of BB the way I like. Hehe!! But of cos must sacrifice abit la.
I am not putting BB in infant care. Since FIL wanna take care, with the maid's help, I think I am fine lo. But I did tell hubby that if my in laws try to push their luck too far by forcing me to leave my BB with them for the weekdays, I will put BB in infant care.
Pillow: Ya lo.. I know that BB in infant care tend to fall sick more frequently, that's why I agreed to my MIL's suggestion that my FIL will take care of BB.
My FIL now retired. Got nothing to do. Actually his health seems to be deterioting too. But I know hubby like BB to be taken care of his parents, then I also take a step back and agreed lo. But just dun like the idea that they prefer me to leave BB with them for the weekdays.
Although I know they are doing it for our own good, but then I dun like being force. I rather you let me slowly experience it on my own first. Who knows, maybe I really can take care of BB at night lei. Moreover, BB will tend to sleep thru the night when they get older ma. So I dun see any problem.