Need to vent out my frustration about this gal fren of mine. She is a very straight forward person but also over sensitive. She is a person whom you would say doesn't care about how others are feeling. Example: She can say you are fat but you cannot say she is fat.
Whenever I put up my nick in MSN on certain things, she will always put me down. Like recently, I just wrote in my MSN nick on whether Ameda or Medela pump is good. Immediately, she msn me and say don't need to buy so early. I ask her why everytime i put up something on my nick means i wanna buy, then she say i very KS and kanjiong.
I do agree that I am KS in view of gathering information. What's wrong with me doing research and preparing myself for the coming of BB. She has her own style of working, I have mine. If she makes provide useful information, i don't mind. But she always say things like don't waste time, don't waste money, don't bother now.. not helping me much at all.
Then she always try to hint that I make fun of her when she was preggy. I really don't think so. Last time when she was preggy, she was having a hard time, so whenever she told me her problem, I will try to soothe her by saying baby is fine, don't over stress yourself, etc. Then she always say I don't understand and throw her temper at me. Then now i am preggy, she always say now u know how i was feeling and still dare to make fun of her when she is preggy.
I mean when one is worried, of cos u try to soothe the person. I don't think anyone in the right mind will say" Ya.. i think something is wrong with your baby." or "Ya.. I don't think your baby will be healthy too". So I don't see anything wrong with the way i treated her when she was preggy.
Very piss with her everytime she talked to me.