noknok: newborns no need pillow, can fold muslin cloth and use as pillow. but saw this NB pillow by babysafe - says can prevent flat head, so hubby bought coz his niece has a flat head. MIL had to keep rubbing her head to make it round but a bit too late. now niece's head not very round, a bit flat. hubby is afraid of that lor. dunno what happened, must be MIL and parents just let the baby slept on her back when young. anyway, has to change baby's sleeping position to prevent flat head, so we also bought a sleep positioner - but baby can only sleep on the side only during daytime, when there's someone watching. night time got to sleep on the back
bumper: oic...thanks
black sesame paste: try the one oppposite bugis junction. you know, the area with lots of makan places? there's one dessert shop, HK style, very popular. can try