Jasmini, fortunately I do have a maid at home but she will not be 24 hrs looking after BB, and I also have a hyperactive and very cute mini schnauzer who may be overly enthusiastic everytime she sees BB. So she may be jumping all over her or running over her if BB is laying on the floor and nobody is watching at all times. We intend to leave the bedroom door open downstairs so that we can hear him and vise versa when we are in the living room. So I think I will still need a cot, but I may then get one that can be converted to a bed so that I won't feel like it will go to waste later on. Mothercare Cot/Bed is going about $500/+.
Hey yes, the Quinny Zapp in orange, pink, purple colour is sooooo ugly. hehehe. No wonder they are trying to get rid of it cheap.
Well if the Maxicosi cant last till 1 year, and our foreign babies tend to be bigger I think, then a 2nd hand one may be better! As I recall, my hubby's bro had a baby boy 2 yrs back and he was HUGE only after 2 mths! he was as big as a 6 4 to 6 mths old local baby! so I am anticipating if my BB boy will be big too, though my bump now is not quite big. I'm 25 weeks this week and have put on 7.7KG. 1.5kg in the last 1 week though!
Aven, how long did your previous car seat lasted?
Lilysnow, yes, I meant 2 birth certs and 1 passport actually, so I will likely take the British passport. It's the NS and Chinese language as a compulsory that really bothers me, and at least BB can be exempted in school for that.
However, we still intend to put him through Chinese language for the roots but at least it is more of a language course than a compulsory subject. My girl is struggling with Chinese at the moment and it really pains me to put her through all the tuition and extra weekend lessons, especially when it is PSLE this year. I rather prefer her to have weekends free for play and fun and after school should be more relaxed and not filled with piles of homework. Yes, indeed the Singapore education system is getting to be quite tough on our kids these days.
Re: Stroller:
I will want to get the stroller system early as we intend to have as much outdoor with BB as possible. We will go out every weekend and on weekdays just me and BB and my older girl and so I'm sure she will love to push her litttle BB bro along in the stroller. I used to carry her a lot on the sling as well when it was just me and her and that is kinda convenient so I will still have a Baby Bjorn for short distances, but can be heavy if getting groceries and stuffs and eating out. I did that many times with my girl before and will still eat with her in the sling but it can be cumbersome too as you can't put her down anywhere.
Peck/Diansjs,
Re: Doc Tham, he already said he will charge same rates as KKH for his Private Suit patiens who are following him to TMC. As for procedures on deposits and booking room and stuffs, he still ask us to check through WC Cheng's nurses. I am seeing him this Thu, so will get more details from him. He did say that KKH is still bettr in terms of Paediatric care though and TMC is good for services and experience. So it is really a choice we have to make eventually. I want to think that all will go well and be positive that I will have a smooth birth and that there will be no complications.