Hi Mummies, I got a problem now also. My SILs had adviced me not to get a CL as we have a maid at home who looked after MIL and other than that she has nothing much to do, so they said why not save the money and ask the maid to help look after the baby. She, by the way has 2 kids.
I thought I'd consider the option as we will be able to save $1800, but the problem is the maid only speaks tamil. I'm okay with the way they looked after babies cos she only has to bath her and I hope I'll be breastfeeding exclusively. But how about mummy? The way we shower, the kind of herbs we use, do you think getting a CL is better?
Very confused man. As for meal, I'll probably order tingkat if not getting CL. And tingkat don't include breakfast, what should we eat for breakfast? If I have to ask the maid to cook then I can't communicate with her.
Getting a CL is expensive and an extra person around, and she only has to cook and bath the baby cos got maid to do the laundry already.
Really very confused... what will you do?