Torayme,
I know what u mean. I also strongly did not want my MIL to take care of Emma, coz alot of ways may differ. I know it's quite silly, but I rather her be closer to a stranger than attached to my MIL. But then,there's pros and cons, with MIL at least u know Heidi is loved and really loved by ur MIL so no matter how her ways differ, she will try her best to take care of Heidi in the best way she knows how. Haiz, at the end of the day, I think the Lord teaches our children.
Workwise, I will go back to work, but am in search of new jobs already. I dun think my office is conducive for a working mum and I really want something more flexi for myself. So though I go back to work, I want to ultimately be able to pick her up early or bring her back at 3/4pm. That's my eventual plan, so now sourcing for new jobs already.
U see how, Heidi may not want to up her intake, I think when the time comes she will look hungry and u'll know she needs more milk. How many feeds is she taking per day? If she takes more feeds, I guess then her intake per feed is okay at 120mls?